Trapped in Love

@cearn25 (3456)
Philippines
October 21, 2011 12:25pm CST
I'm in a situation wherein I am trapped in a relationship. I wanted to break up with my boyfriend but just can't do it because my boyfriend always threatens me and that it makes me not to let him go. What should I do?
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5 responses
kaeirole
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
in what way did he threaten you? try to talk to him..and tell him how you feel..and make him understand that it's not working anymore..i know it's easy to say than done..but just give it a try..
kaeirole
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
23 Oct 11
i understand your situation..i was also in the same situation of your kids..my parents' relationship went rocky on their 19th year of being married..but thank god they still are together right now..but i can still feel a little gap between them..my father isn't wearing his wedding ring anymore..and they really tried that we, their children won't notice their problem..sad to say, my father always shared his problem to me..not to make worry..but to be aware what's really happening.. i hope you and your husband have solved that problem..and love will come back and touch your hearts..because it's hard to grow in a family where parents don't love each other anymore..
cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
he has this alas thingy which he uses wherein I just can't let go of myself to him. I wanted to erase this thing but it's just that it is so difficult to find a way in doing it.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
Why let someone threaten you? It's not love anymore. This is one wrong realization about love. Love is not to threat or scare someone. If your boyfriend is threatening you,you need to think now, is this the kind of relationship that you want to stay forever?
cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
He doesn't want me to leave him that is why in some way he threatens me. I am afraid now of the outcome. For now we are okay with my boyfriend and he also stops threatening me.
umabharti
@umabharti (3972)
• India
23 Oct 11
Place a complaint for your rights .
cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
I want to settle the problem between us two. I don't want to make the situation serious.
karstine29
@karstine29 (694)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Simple. Do you like someone to control your life?? You must always remember that it is only yourself could have choices and could do decisions in your life. If you want to live your life stress-free, then get lost with those factors that could make your life complicated and miserable. There are a lot of persons who get so stupid in the name of love. So better choose your path, are you gonna be with those?? or not?? Again, its up to you. Life is what you make it.
cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
I don't want somebody controlling my life especially in making decisions. But the fate has come me into this situation where in I have to let other people control everything I do. Every choices should be consulted first to him. Sorry for acting like this. Maybe I just miss my single life. Thanks for your advice. God bless you.
derveni
@derveni (35)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Well I think you can tell him that you're going to break up with him then just walk away and don't see him again. He doesn't have the right to threaten you. Show him that you're not afraid and make a stand on your decision on breaking up with him.
cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
It is not that easy though. I do not want to end up this way messing up with him. I just hope that I am very brave to face the consequences if i'm going to break up with him. And yes, I am afraid of the possible things that might happen. It would be scandalous.