"Friends" that says negative things about you ..behind your back
By chillmaik
@chillmaik (67)
Philippines
October 21, 2011 10:02pm CST
in college i got these 3 close friends that i hang out with always..i treated them as real friends.after graduation we barely meet each other..and while i was checking on a social network.3 of them were having a public conversation there..i read their conversation and to find out it was about me..they were saying negative things about me.they didn't not mention my name..but it was obvious.even one of my close friend sent me a message saying that i was the topic of the conversation..They always invite me to go out and spend time with them..but then i would hear my other friends telling me that they were spreading rumors about me....why would they want to hang out with me then back stab me at the same time?? well i stopped communicating with them.i didn't ask the reason why did they do that..
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6 responses
@vasumathi (436)
• India
22 Oct 11
dont give importance to people who speak about you at your back. They dont have braveness to speak infront of you. They get small happiness in doing so. so dont care about all these things. we cannot change the character of such people.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
Well,good to know they are your back bitters friend.So lesson for you to stay away for ow on,ddo not communicate.
And if you want ,you can frankly talk to them why they are talking about you..They are like a judas..
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
22 Oct 11
Hi friend...I had no experience regarding this but it will be sad listening this type of rumors from our friends who are very close to us.. avoiding them is the best choice you made...
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
22 Oct 11
Friendships of college life can't be treated as real friendships of life.Real friends are always helpful in critical situations of one's life. Simply avoid friends who aren't well wishers of you
Since all those three are in same tone it will be better to try to analysis the fault that they found in you.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
Well,good to know they are your back bitters friend.So lesson for you to stay away for ow on,ddo not communicate.
And if you want ,you can frankly talk to them why they are talking about you..They are like a judas..
@clearwater18 (695)
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
Well, it's pretty obvious that they're not your true friends. So, try to just don't mind them. They don't deserve your friendship anyway because true friends don't stab you in the back. They tell you right in front of your face. I guess that stopping your communication with them is a good thing.
