Emotional and Psychological abuse , it it as bad as

United States
October 23, 2011 12:09pm CST
There are many experts who say that psychological, emotional and mental abuse is just as painful if not more so that physicl abuse. The scars that no one else sees are there for the person who carries them but only visible to those who are allowed into the private world of the sufferer. Do you think that psychological, mental or emotional abuse is as bad as physical abusee?Why do you say this.. Do you know anyone who has gone through such? If so how do they handle this abuse?
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• United States
23 Oct 11
I do believe it is just as painful as physical abuse, however, I'm not sure if I agree that it's more painful. The only reason I say this is, anyone who is being physically abused, is also enduring psychological abuse. A person cannot be physically abused without there being some psychological and emotional impact on them. Any kind of abuse is incredibly saddening whether it be physical or psychological, but I don't think one is worse than the other. I definitely agree though, psychological abuse follows you into adulthood. I think we've all suffered at least some form of it whether it be from parents, friends, schoolmates, etc. Every little thing leaves an imprint. It's what you do with those imprints that matter. You can choose to have the struggles of your past motivate you to do something positive, or dwell on them and live in a negative atmosphere. I choose to conquer! :)
• United States
23 Oct 11
Since I am majority in psychology.. I think I know that physical wounds heal much faster than the emotonal, mental , psychological. I would say . each one are painful at the time. When the abuse happens.. physical is painful but what remains are the psychological, mental and emotional scars that can go on for years and sometimes for a lifetime.
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• United States
24 Oct 11
That's just what I said...Any physical abuse leaves scars of emotional abuse. There is no way someone can endure physical abuse and not suffer repercussions of emotional abuse from it. As a psychology major, you should know that. Nobody can be beaten and then not have any emotional scarring from the event. No abuse is worse than the other. There are varying degrees for every situation. You should know that as a Psych major also...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Jan 13
hi little franciscan To me physical abuse will soon be healed but emotional and psychological abuse scars the mind and leaves lasting problems for a person male or female.Usually the person who suffers real physical ab use also suffers lasting results from emotional and psychological abuse. You handle it like any other ersonal problem one day at a time, maybe trying to get some counseling from a psychologist also.
• United States
7 Jan 13
I agree.. the counseling really helps with the healing process.. one day at a time.. sometimes even one minute, one second at time.. Victory comes in little steps..Thanks for replying.
• Mexico
25 Oct 11
Hi little franciscan: I have no doubt someone can abuse a person psycologycally, making him/her feel really sad or playing with his/her emotions. It's a pain that remains with you because it's all in your brain and sometimes people feel so affected that even if they haven't suffered physical abuse they are mentally hurt and they can recover after the abuse committed this way. ALVARO
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
23 Oct 11
littlefranciscan ..I don't know anyone who has gone through an extreme in an abusive situation, but I think we all can imagine a little since most of us have at one time or another been hurt by something someone said. I definitely think verbal abuse especially extreme and constant is very very destructive..more so that physical abuse. The physical heals and though some emotional scars are there from the very experience of physical abuse, I think verbal can be more devastating. It would maybe depend too on who was doing the abuse..from a parent would be the worst I'd think since we all long for parental approval to some degree.
• Philippines
7 Jan 13
All kinds of abuse are painful. We never want to have that as a human being. We are born to be care and to care others and people have no right to abuse us. This could have a big impact for some victim and it takes time to heal those wounds.