I cant stop thinking about having another baby

I'm not done completing my family but I feel the need to say something to you. Don't worry I'm not going to be mean at all. Have you talked about this with your partner and family? I know I have every strong feelings to have another baby but part of me feels its not the right time yet even though when I had my daughter 8 months ago it wasn't the right time then either. The more I don't talk about it with my husband and family the more I wanted it. When I do talk about then I see its not the right time again. I just miss the less sleep and the feel of being pregnant. Right now I'm living through my husband uncles and his wife. They are having there second baby and almost about a year ago the second week of November there first born will be 1 years old. Last time I did want a baby but my husband didn't and after finding out they where having a baby a month or two later we found out about our daughter. Here we are again. I just think its my wishful thinking of wanting the good old days back but I do see its not a good time. You might be going through the same thing just wanting those days back. You should talk to your partner and kids about if they want or think its a good idea to add another member to the family.

Then have one... You can just adopt a child if it would endanger your life to give birth ain. There are hundreds of kids out there who needs a mother's care.

I only have one baby girl at the moment and it's her birthday today. :) I think for your case, for as long as it is a mutual decision between you and your husband, that should mean a Yes. Go ahead and follow what your hearts desire. We understand the hardships that go along with raising a child but these are all worth it right?! My husband and I have small talks about having another baby, too. We hope to be a baby boy next. Regardless though, we would definitely love to welcome the next one.

I am only a mother of 1, so i have no real experience in this. But i just wanted to give my input and say, do what makes you feel complete and do what is best for your family. Maybe sit down with them and ask them how they feel. Or maybe adopt?? Good luck in your journey :)

When my husband and I married, our daughter was five. I was in my thirties; he was in his mid fifties. He already had two young adult sons from his first marriage and wanted no more than the three children had already had. I was happy with my one from our relationship. Then, when Stephanie turned seven, and I was nearing forty, I started feeling weird. Like something was missing. I talked to my husband about another baby. He didn't think it would happen as he was now near sixty, but we decided to let nature take it's course. A few days later, a friend I hadn't heard from in a couple of years called me to tell me about a dream she had. She dreamed I had told her I was expecting a baby boy. We laughed...but then about three weeks later I realized I was due but wasn't feeling the usual cramping and such. I went and got a pregnancy test done. The result came back a faint positive, but as the woman at the clinic said, "There's no such thing as a faint negative." I was pregnant! In Jan. of 1993 I gave birth to my son, and we named him Paul John Christopher. He was a beautiful baby; today a handsome young 18 year old. Now that I am slightly past my mid fifties I am so happy I had this one last child. He kept me young and up to date on everything. I wouldn't have another one now - and he was for sure my last. But I can tell you I would do it all over again.