Friend, seriously you break my heart!!!

@koneho12 (165)
Philippines
October 24, 2011 4:16pm CST
There was an incident yesterday that I saw a friend of mine and we ate at the restaurant, I paid for him because of my gratitude tha he was good to me all the time since we've met. And then, we've talk, I asked him for some clarifications about what I heard from our other friend, that he was rushed at emergency department of a hospital due to seizure attack. It was his first time I could not also believe that news that why, when I had that time, I grabbed it and I asked him. And He said yes. An the follow up question was this, How come you experienced that because all I know is that he only has Gastrointestinal problem and the neurological problem is too far to him. But, he rather chose to keep on silent about this. I understand. I got home, and the friend who shared the news to messaged me telling that, our friend who had seizure attack get mad her because she shared it with me. For all this time I thought that he trusted me, we have been in many weired,exciting and happy things We shared secrets. And now, I think that he does not have trust to me. I don't know why, maybe because he does not like my being noisy. I erased his phone numbers in my phone and I will not contact him first any more. I was really hurt. I cried already and it is enough. any opinion to this? thank you my dear myLotters.
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@GardenGerty (160702)
• United States
25 Oct 11
A seizure can be a rare, one time happening. It can be caused by an accident, low blood sugar, a virus and fever, or for some mysterious reason. Many people are embarrassed to have a seizure, or they do not know what causes them. It feels like we label them with their illness, instead of remembering that they are people. Many people do not want you to ask personal questions about their health, and object to it. It makes them feel as if they have been talked about. Your other friend should not have shared personal medical information with you. You probably should not have asked a personal question about his medical condition, but let him voluntarily share with you what had happened.
@koneho12 (165)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
Yes, that would be right. I had a mistake and I learned about it. He still has his own judgment if he will share to other people or not. thank you.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
Try to understand your friend. I know seizure sometime is shameful for others. Have you ever seen one having seizure attack?...that is maybe the reason why your friend feels bad upon knowing that you knew about it. So,instead of feeling bad...you must understand him.