What will I do?
By kaichoukebz
@kaichoukebz (1190)
Philippines
October 25, 2011 3:46am CST
I have this friend of mine named "Mr. He". We are in the same school. We are classmates before, but I think now now. He barely goes to school because of financial problem. One day, he approach to me and ask if I could lend him some money, yes, I lend him. It was really disappointing to see that he only wasted it playing computer games on computer shops. He didn't pay me for that amount. The other day, he then approach to me and ask if I could lend him some money again. I didn't answer. I didn't lend him. Is that an appropriate act from me?
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2 responses
@airkulet (2700)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
It is not your obligation to lend a money to a friend for his education. He have his parent they should be the one to sent their child in school. Plus the fact that you only see that he wasted your money is the sign that he cannot be trusted for money.
@kaichoukebz (1190)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
Yes, I am not responding to his request anymore. I really hate when he just ask for some money to others but to found out that he only go to computer shops and play computer games. He doesn't help himself either.
@sheetal2900 (336)
• India
25 Oct 11
Hello my dear friend If he need money for only playing games on computer then i think that you have done right job because wasting money in games is not correct instead of that he should use that money in some creative job u tell him what he is doing wrongly as a friends responsibility and then see if it works or not to make his life good
@kaichoukebz (1190)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
Yes, for every action that he is making, it should be his own responsibility also. I am really tired of lending him some amount. He just waste it for his own pleasure. he must do some part time jobs to support his studies.
