How to keep myself occupied and make myself less irritating.
By megumib0b0
@megumib0b0 (15)
India
October 25, 2011 5:24am CST
Hi Guys.
I need to keep myself occupied. My office timings are from 10 AM to 7 Pm and my boyfriend's timings start from 7PM. When i get back to room after work (there is no tv, internet or anything entertaining). So, I have this tendency of calling him at work every now and then. Things get worse when he has to listen to my problems in between his tight schedule. And so, we end up in fights. I need ways to keep myself busy and reduce the urge to call him. He is a wonderful guy. I don't want to lose him.
Thanx.
7 responses
@bodhi_91 (191)
• India
27 Oct 11
Lets take it a proper way. What is ur hobby? My most passtime is a online roleplaying game i play named Popmundo. That's fun and interesting. Also facebook takes much of my time.
U have 9 hours of office time, I don feel bored even a second even in a whole holiday. I feel i had a day with more than 24 hours.
Just find out your interest n work on it. Donno what ur interest is? Good, then try finding it out. It also takes time :)
@clearwater18 (695)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
Try to go out if you want. Just stroll around. Find anything interesting to do in your house. Guys get really annoyed if you keep calling them. Give him some time for himself too.
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
25 Oct 11
Yeah you are correct in your thoughts friend. Disturbing him during his work time may lead to break your relationship. So try to have some hobbies like painting or anything else which you re more interested at your childhood.And plan something to give surprise to your boy friend which was made by you.. It shows your love to him...All the best friend.. Don't worry true relation will never breaks...
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
I used to bug my bf too to talk about some issues even when he's at work. But I guess we have to understand that they have to work. It's just really hard to control ourselves but we need to try harder coz it surely affects the relationship. It will just depend on our partner's characted, if they get fed up or not. Maybe you should myLot a lot and spill out all your problems here ^^ you can also read some books or write a diary or a blog where you can put all your rants 
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
Why not try to cooking...Cooking sweets and pastries is a time eating task...
Pretty sure he'll be thankful for all the sweets instead of the calls he'll get from you..
@vyrose1988 (14)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
Sometimes that happens in a relationship that the two of you work on a different schedules, but then what both of you are doing is just good for each of you. Don't be afraid to lose him, as long as you will not start a fight with him, he will hold on to you. For him you will be a wonderful person or girlfriend. If you live in the same house try to make something special for him as a reminder, that you love him and that you understand him on his situation.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
25 Oct 11
Dear friend,
I feel if you like writing or scraping, just take a book and pen with you, or any book for reading. You can write down that comes on you mind in books, may be just use you mobile games, download movies or songs in mobile hear or watch it. Anyhow hope you will no more worry on lossing your wonder boy friend. Have a great love...
