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I think that tends to happen to people when they type things. Some people just have a hard time expressing themselves through text as you said and it may sound blunt sometimes. But of course, there are careful people who can actually express their care through text as well. Maybe the rude sounding ones are just no expressive through text. Good luck! And it will pass.

I easily get irritated too specially to people commenting negatively to my posts/discussions or people who just leave a pointless comment without even understanding what I mean. Well, that's life we just need to get used to them. I see you're just new here so better stay away from the bad guys. Better yet cool down and control your emotion.

Is it me? Because I tend to sound mean sometimes. But probably not, since I've been away for a few days. Well you have the choice to ignore it. Or you can fight back. No, I don't mean lash out. I mean a good debate. If you think the person is being a know-it-all, then try to prove him wrong. It would be a good discussion.

hi girl thinking I hope you do not mean me as sometimes with new people I just suggest that they read the guidelines and the dos and dont's of discussions before they make their first discussionl but this is not said to be at all snotty but to help as I was once in their shoes and had people help me the same way. I have never meant to be rude and really the information there is so helful in knowing just how mylot wo rks. I do not mean to be a know it all as I reallyh am not but I have been here for nearly five years so know someof the ins and outs of mylotting.If you see my user name hatley know please I am not snotty nor mean just trying to help is all.I will help anyone but first I think they should read the rules and \ guidelines as mylot gives them the link when they first join, I do never want anyone to think I am rude.hugs from hatley.

i will assure you, people here are so very kind and understanding, beside you will learn they give opinion and suggestion, Some people here are giving a great a good idea that you will learn so much according to them experience.. welcome to mylot

You have the freedom to report and move on if you feel someone has hurt you. It is better that way than to enter into an unpleasant dialogue. We come here for relaxation and if you feel someone is spoiling it for you just ignore those users.

I joined myLot over four years ago, and I am certainly very glad that I did. This is a unique site to meet and make friends with wonderful people from countries and cultures around the world. An excellent community where members work together and help one another.

it is understandable to feel that way. actually, it is not normal not to feel anything about rude remarks or comments. but as most people say, it will pass. it cannot be helped, mylot is a site where diverse people join. the way people react or give their few cents, is dependent on many factors. we cannot expect them to be doing the same things as respectful as we do them. how do i cope(i am still a newbie here)? i try to maintain my cool but does not let any 'rudeness' pass. i simply answer back as honestly as i could but not in the way the person did it. you know, 'kill them with kindness', as the saying goes. welcome to mylot and enjoy!

For me yes think more time to be good in it just a few moment you find more good.

There are indeed, there are even people that start a discussion to attack anothers.

Since Mylot has many members across the world, they have different cultures and traditions as well as beliefs. In this regard, others will find your opinion so different, so their tendency is to rebut it or to insist on what they believe. In case, they seem rude to you, it is best to clarify what they are trying to mean . Or so as not to be bothered or elongate the issue, just ignore them.

Hey! I've been here for about a few months now I think, I can't seem to remember and I really love it here. I have school work going on right now as it's my final senior year in high school and it's restricting me to spend more time here! But I try to squeeze a little bit of time to hang around here. The people here are great and I have made several friends. It's great when I find new discussions that I can respond and relate to! Mylot makes my world a little brighter and I can learn so much here. But do remember that we are communicating through text so some comment may come off as rude. That's why we have emoticons! They really help the reader what the writer is feeling and whether the comment simply sarcasm. It's hard to be sarcastic through text. Don't worry about the rude people, not everyone is happy.

I also receive some response that sound "rude" for me but I just Ignore it because it's out of our control. But those who you said sounds like they know all things maybe they are just trying to help you and just explaining things clearly for you. Just have fun mylotting:)