war with bff

Don't be childish... If she hate you, don't hate her the way that she do. Instead, try to understand her cause she was disappointed about you. I guess that was already a long time ago, so come on make your move. It is better that you will go to her house or wherever she is and have a conversations. But start saying " I'm sorry and I miss you". With that, I'm sure your friend will smile back at you and hug you. Don't waste your time for waiting for her, make your move now before it's too late. :-) send my regards to her.

Hi dear, I would be very upset with a friend that goes out with boyfriend instead of me if we planned. But wow, she's not upset, she's angry. Try to talk to her, really talk. She seems to be a person that has trouble to forgive cause it's been a while already. If that is the case you explain to her, apologize and if she continues that way...dear, you deserve better. I'm sure you won't ever go out with your boyfriend if you have plans with her right? I think she felt he's more important. I became cold and distant with girlfriends that choose boyfriends over me, but when they apologized I accepted, if they didn't do it again ever it was fine but there are those who does it and men come first, it's okay but it won't be my friend. So I'm sure you don't plan on doing it again, tell her everyone is allowed to do one mistake. If she doesn't forgive you, let it go, she's not worthed. A relationship with a person, be it friend or husband that doesn't know how to forgive is never worthed dear.

Well, your analogy was probably right. Did you call her ahead of time to cancel your plans? Do you do this often? Regardless, the best way to fix things would be to talk. Text her and appologize for whatever it is that you did that hurt or upset her. Tell her you miss her very much and would like to get together and talk it over. if she doesn't respond to that then you'll just have to wait until she has time to cool down.

The answer is if you continue as you are, how's that working for you? Your choice to change something or just let it go on. If you don't make the change you leave all the power on her side. Do you want to do that? Blessings

First you should always keep your dates with you friend. True friends stays, while boyfriends comes and goes. Instead of typing one word response, break down and tell your friend how you feel, let her that you miss her. She probably went through something and needed you, and guessed that you aren't the same person she knew. She may not like your boyfriend, he may have said something to her, or IDK. All I know is that if your friend is important to you and you really can't tell her that you care and misses you, then why should she. Just tell her, ask her out for coffee, and let her know. If, not she is the one missing out being your friend.

YOU SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! DId you text your bestfriend that time when you were supposed to hang out that you would meet your boyfriend instead. Did you explain to her why would you rather meet your boyfriend intead of her? Or did you and your bestfriend planned this hang out for a long only for you to ditch her with your boyfriend? You know, whatever way I look at it, you are the one who's at fault. And you not talking to her is not helping. Explain to her why you did not meet her. Explain why you'd rather be with your boyfriend. She is your bestfriend so I'm sure she'd understand. 7thspring, I know that when you are in a relationship, most of the time, you would like to be on their side. You always long for the presence of your loved one but hey, do not forget about your family and friends! Do not revolve your world aroung your boyfriend 'cause when he's gone, the one who would comfort you, the one who would stay beside you while you're bawling like a baby, are your friends and family members. Remember that.

I would suggest clear any misunderstanding/ misgivings you two may have as soon as possible. From time to time, we can have small tiffs with our buddies, friends but it is always done sportingly knowing the other person will come around soon and it is all fun and play. This is no time for ego hassles, so try taking the initiative. Remember you have much to lose if you both keep bickering as you will lose your BFF and also will feel bad later for making your BFF suffer over this issue. Instead of simply texting one liners, express your feelings, share wonderful thoughts/ quotes with a few words thrown in, describing how much your friendship mean to you and how much you enjoy her company. Am sure things will work out soon if you persist and are patient. Best of luck! Have a good day, Cheers :)

7thspring oh do make up as best friends are precious and y ou know you are feeling bad about it.Call her and ask if the two of you could not bury hurt feelings and go out on the girls night out. you and her were friends before.Make the first move and set things straight. good luck and God bless.

I think you should say something. Text her 'let's talk' or something. If she isn't going to and you are depressed over it then soemthing definitely needs to be done. And if you are hurting then you might as well do it. I hope you do so. It will get things out in the open and maybe solve it all.

For me apply the patient and humbled way so be good to it keep up the good work try to think at the first day when you would like him most and why not get ans aid sorry for everything that's life need more time to handle it way.

For me if you love him think at the most way to be good and apply the humble and patient way of life try to think of what the first you most like to him and follow what your heart said.

If you are your friend hide something, and not been in contact with you compare with past, then the cold war will starts. That will be the sad situation. We can do anything, our thoughts with them only. The time can surely give a good answer for it, because true friends can never apart each other.

How about texting: sorry. Like to go out together tonight? Not that much words to text. I think you both are childish and it can't be that hard to act normal again and text some normal lines. Someone has to break this childish behaviour and you won't be less if you are the one. This is what friendship means. Giving, accepting and forgiving and not making a huge problem out of nothing. Just ignore/skip what happend and go on with your lives.