Shall I wish her Birthday

@jagjit273 (1754)
India
October 26, 2011 3:13am CST
I was in Internet love with a girl few months back and we also use to talk on phone.But after few months she started avoiding me, Maybe she has got new boyfriend and i have not been on talking terms for last 3 months. Now her birthday is on 27th. I am trying to forget this but this thing strikes my mind again and again. So what you suggest shall I send her an e card on her birthday or not.She forget to wish me my birthday when we were in relationship. Shall I treat her the way she treated me on my birthday. Your suggestions awaited
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13 responses
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
26 Oct 11
I think that if it is in your mind like it is, you should send her an ecard or call her, it doesn't matter that she forgot your birthday. I think you will feel better if you do that. Love is the most beautiful feeling that we can feel. And if you are anxious to wish somebody happy birthday,you can wish me, because today is MY birthday!! Well I hope you find and in case she doesn't respond you in the way you would like don't feel bad.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Oct 11
Happy birthday to you. Many Many HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY.MAY GOD FULFILL ALL YOUR WISHES. THANKS FOR YOUR VIEW . I LIKE IT AND LIKE YOU. CAN WE BE FRIENDS
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Oct 11
Happy birthday to you. Many Many HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY.MAY GOD FULFILL ALL YOUR WISHES. THANKS FOR YOUR VIEW . I LIKE IT AND LIKE YOU. CAN WE BE FRIENDS
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
26 Oct 11
Wow! double wishes! for me! thanks! thanks my friend. Of course we can be friends!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
I admire your love to that girl. After 3 months without communication still you have never forgotten her. How I wish to met someone like you who will give importance about me. You can always send her e-card or you can call her. There is nothing wrong remembering someone you love. But,I suggest you try to moved on,since she never responded to your love anymore.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Oct 11
I am very confused. and hurted. I don't know what to do.Hse just changed her number also.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Oct 11
So r u lonely too.As it looks from your review
• Indonesia
27 Oct 11
i don't know waht to do. he just her changed number
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 11
Internet love is something that is so fickle. You shouldn't be too emotional and putting your total trust on this virtual love. There is no harm in sending her and e-card on her birthday as she might have a turn of mind to come back to refresh the love that has been snapped off without reasons.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Oct 11
I Know that fact buddy. But Love is such a feeling that happens automatically and one has no control over it.Thanks for your suggestion
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Oct 11
I think a friendly greeting would suffice, nothing too grand nor too desperate please. Not talking to this girl for 3 months is something could be considered 'over'. Her forgetting your birthday is also an indication that she no longer feels for you (girls don't forget dates easily, most especially to those they truly cherish in their hears). So just to satisfy your need to show her you didn't forget, you could greet through email or sms, but just don't expect to get a response or the response you expect to have. She might be in a relationship and no longer wants you in her life, but you could show her that she isn't forgotten. Have a great MyLot experience today!
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Oct 11
Hmmm U are very right. I am also wondering the girl, who was the first one to say me she loves me and that too from her office, How can she forget my birthday,But as all of yours precious adivces I have sent her greeting lets see what she do. lets hope for the best
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
26 Oct 11
Jagjit...You can send a B'day card to her...And after that, See her response. If she is saying sorry to you,You can open your heart...Otherwise you should arrange a meeting with her...That will help you to know her mind.... ALL THE BEST..... :-)
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Oct 11
Thanks for the advice, But If she didn't reply why should I go and meet her. I think I should consider it over.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
27 Oct 11
But you should try to talk to her..She will share you her problems.... All the best...Thank you...
@JulyKing (110)
• China
27 Oct 11
Good afternoon,jagjit! In my opinion,you should begin your new life because she has lost touch with you for three months!I think she must have had new boyfriend,so you needn't to break into her life once again! About the question you mentioned above that whether you sent her a birthday card or not!I think it doesn't matter if you want to do that because it's just friendly although she forgot your birthday! Do what you really want to do deep down!^_^ Have a good day!
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Oct 11
I asked her the same thing that If she got some just tell me I wont disturb you again, But she never replied again ever after.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
27 Oct 11
Sure, she would be really happy. It's so nice when a guy remembers even after all is over.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
26 Oct 11
If you are feeling real thrust from inside than yes you must and do not allow her to go so easily and if she still ignore you than you have the choice and reason to let her go. Have a nice day
• India
28 Oct 11
Wish her and get over it.
• India
26 Oct 11
If you are still loving her wish her on this birthday and express your feelings about her. Even though you are not loving her wishing on her birthday would be a minimum curtsy..
26 Oct 11
hi:) I think there's nothing wrong to greet her on her birthday...maybe she's only waiting for you to call her again or get in touch with her again, coz girls sometimes do things and say things because of pride or doubts but that's not really what they mean, it's all drama for you to ask her whats the problem and for you to exert more effort to the relationship, maybe just like you she's also hoping that you greet her. anyway it's up to you, I don't know the whole story so if my advice is not helpful, hehe just think that I'm also a girl:D lol!
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Oct 11
I have already sent her an E-card Listening to all of your precious suggestions. and Its for tomorrow. Lets see what happens. He your advice is much more for me dear. I really appreciate your effort.Thanks
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
26 Oct 11
What she has done to you is definitely condemnable . She should have talked to you regarding her change in behaviour . But since you love her you should send her an ecard wishing her on her birthday . It will show you good gesture and courtesy .
• Philippines
26 Oct 11
I suggest you greet her on her birthday. Because you will never know what's gonna happen if you don't. So go ahead, its just a greeting anyway. If things work out well after that, then good for you. But, you also have to prepare yourself if things go sour. Again, atleast you would know.