All about her...

Oh yes, and thank you for starting this discussion. My husband's brother is emotionally disturbed. He was having trouble with his Mother, so I made suggestions like I do with all my friends, suddenly, he starts yelling that, "You always want to fight with me." Actually I never want to fight with him. "Nothing I do is ever right." There was nothing wrong with what he tried, I just thought he should try something else, too. So I gave the phone to my husband who kept trying to tell him that I give advice to all my friends and that's why they generally call me. He was having trouble getting her to eat. I've helped elderly people eat before, esp. ones with no teeth. Buying a blender and blenderizing some food seemed logical to me. Instead he went histerical and started crying. Usually his brother complains and sounds bitter all the time. I ignore it and tell jokes. This time I tried to be helpful and first he starts accusing me and "counterattacking," then he starts crying, then gets hysterical. Sounds like the person who wrote to you is probably also emotionally disturbed. Esp. since first you're the support she needs and then you never support her. Just like I'm always trying to start fights with a brother-n-law that I try to ignore or not speak to at all. I wouldn't take it personally. You're not the person's psychiatrist and obviously she needs one. Like my brother-n-law, they give him anti-depressants and don't bother to have him go to a pych which he obviously needs. He also doesn't like women. Not sure what that's all about. My husband said he was picked on a lot in school so he thinks everyone is picking on him all the time now. I suspect his Mom tried to help him or the girls picked on him the most. Boys picked on me a lot in school, but later on I found out many of them had crushes on me.

Talk about self involved. Do you know her very well? Had you two established something with eachother or just talked? I worked with a lady that was like that. I think because I was the only one that spoke to her. It is weird how people concoct stuff in their heads. It is sad.

I think it is awful that she is so messed up. I am sure I have had similar experiences but cannot think of them right now. Many people view life as being "all about them"

She sounds very self centered to me. Smany people are that way it seems.I wouldn't worry about it & would just ignore her. Everyone has enough stress in their life w/out dealing w/people like her.

A lot of people have a very inward look on life. How does this affect me, what do I get out of it etc. Me me me basically. You left this circle I assume because you felt neither you or them was benefiting from the friendship anymore, or ever for that matter. Sometimes we realize the pieces just don't fit. At least offer her an explanation..if she still thinks it's all about her oh well. Just turn your head and keep on walking the other direction. Good luck with the situation, girls can be tricky..sounds like you might have some major drama heading your way. Next on her list is probably to convince all the other people it was them too. You may have all of them writing you before you know it.

Jeez, she is crazy! Aren't you already out of the club? Then just ignore dear. It's the oposite: SHE'S JEALOUS OF YOU. I dealed with girls like this and I can assure you it's the other way around. And she is not good on the head either, why would someone just assume, even if you were she should be suspicious and not to accuse someone. Don't worry, she's a 100% wrong and if she come closer, defend your self. How dare her, she don't have the right. Happy MyLotting & a Good Day!

If you cannot be yourself with the group of friends that you have, and if that group of friends doesn't get you or understand you, and they aren't supportive, then they aren't your friends. Friends should support friends and should be there for each other, and if they can't be supportive, then they aren't friends to begin with. There were some people who I thought were my friends and who I thought had back, and they didn't, and after that I told myself, "it is better not to have any friend at all than be around toxic people." The people that I hung around with nearly got me killed. What kind of friends do that? You're friends are supposed to look out for you and have your back and protect you from danger, and these people didn't. I do have friends now, who are supportive and who are a lot like myself, and even though they aren't the same gender as me, they are more my friends than the people who nearly had my life stripped away from me.

Well,some people assume too much. I never been in same situation like yours but heard same story like this. Some people assumed much and make tell-tale story (so bad) Or,they only want attention (no one knows either)

There will always be those people who think the world revolves around them. All you can really do is let them think what they want and live in their world of complete arrogance. I know so many people like that. If she wants to feel as though she's what drove you to leave, let her have that glory. You know it's not true. If someone needs to latch onto some fake fantasy like that, then she must not have a lot to hold onto in life. Maybe it'll make you feel better if you pray for her.