who will you choose?

Lets face the reality which is bitter, but true.......love alone is not enough to live life.....specially if you have plans to marry this person and also have children and family.I would prefer a working man, who is not dependent on anyone and has his self-respect.You see love comes after respect....If you have respect for person, you have feelings for him. An idle man will soon become a pain in the neck...and life will become first boring then hell.......... I would prefer, nice working healthy man, and I will love and respect him sincerely and so will his children

i think one always has to use his or her brains. it cannot be all the time that a working person will not have play time or R&R. so, definitely, there will be time for both of the person. the partner does not have to be there 'everyday' or most of the time to tell about the love. love is more than that.

Hahaha that is such a difficult question I paused for a few second and though I dunno if I could choose any of them actually. But, if I was in the same situation then I would definitely choose the one that I really love and no matter what the problem is in between, I will do my best to help to solve it. Have a nice day

I wont choose any one of them if i have a 3rd options. However, looking at my current lifestyle i will choose the second one who is too busy with her work. Advantages, peace of mind, we will have our own space and also they love us it is only that they don't have time. :)

my advice choose the person who loves you but no time for you because he/she is too busy with his work to give everything you need. For live you need money.

It's really could be a life-changing question for anyone and normally in every person's life this day come when you have to select, and i guess choosing the right one is very difficult cause maximum of choosers know the right answer but they just don't wanna accept it.... And at the very same moment I choose the one who loves me but were very busy to have have things that I wanted, but that was the wrong decision for me....cause the person loves you allot but don't have other job will become addicted to you and will remain forever with you..... Basically no relations last very long until and unless you take care of it....

Honestly I will choose the person who doesn't have a job but has time with me. I am sure this person will give me same attention once he will get a job. Unlike the other one who has a job but never give me enough time to make me feel my importance. Emotional attention is important in every relationship. have a good day

For me I will choose the person who had a job. Because if that person really loves me he/she will find time for me even he/she is busy with her/his job. I will understand too if we could do it once in a while as long as we love and trust each other. Anyway it's for out future too.

Hello Angelgie, I will choose a person who don't have a job but loves me and have time for me because i do have a good job and i feel from a couple one should have a job at least.Even i am married and my wife is not working and stays at home and looks after my kids.She never has complaints for being at home for whole day even she likes to stay at home.

I will choose the person who loves me most and it's not matter whether he has job or not. The Love makes wonders and will make him to something . So i will be with him and helps him to do

I will choose the one that always has a time for my. If he doesn't have a job, I will tell him to go for an online job while I'm at work. I will never give up my career so money will not be ca problem for us. Everything I need is someone to be there for me and money will never buu such thing.

I will rather choose the second one. For the reason that having a job is essential in order to have a stable relationship with your partner. Soon, there will always be a way for you and him/her to talk about balancing your time with each other.

That can be a difficult question to answer, but i think option number 2 is better. In my opinion, number 1 will give us alot more trouble for us in the future than number 2. With number 2 i guess we can still find a better solution like finding some free time when he/she not working and spending time together.

In all honesty, I will chose the person with a work who loves me yet doesn't have time. We will eventually grow old and that person will eventually have to stop working. Then he will have time for me regardless if we are already old. What will matter to me is that he loves me. :) Oh, and I should love him as well :)

My ex-boyfriend and I both had more than one job, we had a lot money to spend, but we didn't really have time to spend it, because we were both working all the time. The money didn't bring us happiness, because we both worked 7 days a week and we didn't have time to relax and just enjoy the time together. My husband doesn't earn the same kind of money as my ex-boyfriend did, but he has a lot more time to spend with me and that is more important to me than having a lot of money. I definately prefer my current relationship

I would choose the one who I love most. It wouldn't matter what job he has or where he stands in life...It would just matter that I feel sparks when I'm around him and can't wait to see him again. She should just go for the one she feels the strongest for, regardless of what job he has or how much time he has to spend.

Many people will probably choose the person that is always there for them but then they will feel sorry for not choosing the other person so i`ll choose the rich person that will give me everything i need.

I will go for both, jajaja. I dont have to stay with any of them . Now that I have my experience on marriage I wouldnt live with any of them . I would love them and have fun without belonging to any of them. We have to be realistic if the guy doesnt work We will be very poor and We have to work , if the guy works too much we will look for another one for sure, so, We better dont choose anyone.

I think she should choose the person who has a job first because the person who don't have a job only have that much time for you because of the fact that he have more free time because he don't have a job you don't know if that will still be the same if ever he gets a job and if he doesn't get a job that's worse because people needs income to live comfortably he can't rely on you for all your finances. Second if you really love the person who has a job you would understand the situation because he's working hiss butt off for you, for your future and you can still find a way to spend time with each other if you just talk about it, plan things out, consider all the factors why he can't find time to spend with you, you can work it out. The both of you just need to adjust for each other. Hope it helps you understand the situation more. Good luck:)