Making right decision has been difficult.

it is very hard to make right decision, but you should think carefully when you try to make decision. and when you try to make decision, you must have a peaceful heart. and be positive thinking when you wanna make a decision. the most important thing, you should pray for your live, then God will always help you with your decision. i hope this response will give you much help.

I can very well relate with you hotsummer. Making the right decision is very hard. We don't even know if the decision we make will turn out the way we wanted it to be. What I do if I am going to make decisions in life, to spend a day or two praying. I go to a solitary place where I don't know anybody and contemplate on my life. Weighing the pros and cons and the consequences of it. For sometime that I am doing this, I always feel that I did the mature decision. It may not be totally right but I was ready to face the consequence of it. The key to do it is when my heart and mind says the same thing. It seldom happens. But when it does, I'm sure it is the right thing. Good luck. will be praying for you.

There are times where making what is considered the right decision can really be rather tricky and headache inducing to say the very least. The right decision often is not times is the easy solution. Yet in the long run, I think that there are going to really be a lot of times where there is going to be a lot less headache inducing in the big picture to do the right thing. I don't think it would be so much of the right thing if it was easy. I really think that there are many paths in life. A path in life might be a bit trickier but if we fight through it, we are going to really be with the right path. There are many wrong solutions that are so easy to make. They wouldn't be so appealing if they were not oh so very easy to make. So the right decision is really not going to be the easiest thing to make. Yet, there is a pretty good reason why the right decision is in fact the right decision.

Taking a decision is important, after that only result will come, there we can know whether it is right or not. don't worry, every experience gives some good idea to get over come like these problems.

I used to be in that same situation before. My actions were practically made based on instinct or impulse, unable to distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil. It was characterized by motivation based on immediate gain rather than on reason or logic. I used to be thoughtless and unmindful of the negative effects I was creating for my life. I was then unable to look beyond the immediate and I couldn't plan for the future. My life was horribly miserable until I finally decided to change. I took the first step of unlearning the things that I had learned and adopted new positive beliefs and values. The current beliefs and values that I have and hold dear are my guide and compass in life that provides me a clear direction towards complete satisfaction and happiness in life. Yes, changing and adopting a new lifestyle is hard and difficult but it is not something not achievable for the persistent. I wish that you too can attain change and complete happiness in your life time.

Maybe you should think about it more clearly. Examine all your options first. Weigh them. Try to see which choice has more pros. After that, maybe you can already make the right decision.

Making the right decision is somehow difficult esp when it concern about happiness. As they say misery is easy to attain,but happiness needs to work out. We cannot assure if we are making the right or wrong decision until the result comes out. have a good day

I do have the same problem friend. I can't take any decisions on my own. I will depend on others who loves and care for me. Before marriage i used to take guidelines from my father and mother and now from my husband. My husband thinks everything for more time and takes right decision.I am always happy with my husbands decisions. I am trying to take my own decisions in some things now a days...