What if your boyfriend come back to you after 3 years
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
October 27, 2011 1:52am CST
What you will do if he come back and say to you that he only you live and whant to be with you for all life.
Do you believe him and let you to know that is your life mate?
Or just let him know that you lose confidence in him and don t want be involved again in a relation with him?
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10 responses
@madalinuta (91)
• Romania
27 Oct 11
Maybe he's right, maybe he's lieying. After 3 years you can't come back and say 'hei, i've missed you, you're the love of my life" even if it's true. I can get involved but he should know that it will take some time until I will trust him again. I will not get involved if I don't love him anymore.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
27 Oct 11
You are so very right, will be hard to trust again, to be toghether again and forgot all this time when he don t was there; will be a lot of questions, doubts.
I think that this relation can work only if she love him, and if he can say that he change. never know if will be fine again
@madalinuta (91)
• Romania
27 Oct 11
You are right. It's a risk you want to take or not. If he is your ex it means that something went wrong the first time. Maybe was her fault, maybe was his fault, but together they should figure out what was the problem. If ther relationship has another chance both should think if it's a good idea or not. The second time might be worse.
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@padu19 (1441)
• India
28 Oct 11
I would not trust him. I would atleast attempt to know if he ever had any affair during those 3 years. Because, I have seen a few guys who try several girls and finally choose the best of those and try to convince them for marriage. These people are concerned about the look of the girl and never value how good she is by heart.
They simply use the emotional talks to convince girls. Never trust such guys! You never know - he may leave you again for some other girl who looks better! @icesmile (7160)
• Romania
28 Oct 11
All what you say is very true, is very realistic, trust is a very important issue, who make once something can repeat same mistake.
Maybe is good to give second chance, and let time to show if he will repeat same, anyway, now maybe both have experience, one in lynig, other in believe.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Oct 11
The Thing Is I don't Know what happened between you and him 3 years ago and why he left you.You know better so you are the better judge of the situation , But I one get confused in such situation , as I am going through the same phase,Because my girl friend left me 3 months back and she has not returned yet.I miss her too much, But what to do.I also wonder what to do if she comes back to me.I dont want to give any body else her place in my heart.
So u take your step carefully.
have a nice day
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
27 Oct 11
Second chance, all of us need this, never know when we can be in situation to ask second chance.
If exist true love all is possible no matter people will say or not.
Never know what kind of situation was there, and if fate exist, and he come back, maybe is fate.but must to pay attention, this can t repeat again. just once.
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
27 Oct 11
Hi,
I don't think i will aspect him again. If he says he is missing you then what about these 3 years??
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@flowerfest08 (1677)
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27 Oct 11
that's strange,in that 3 years you didn't have contact with him and all of a sudden he will show up and said that? he probably lying, because if he only want some space between your relationship before, it wont take that long.
If I'm you I won't believe him, but it's up to you anyway,it's your choice. goodluck!
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@Riead68 (51)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 11
Its too difficult to understand someone,,,
But as he is your boyfriend, i think you will know him better then others.
i a matter that a broken glass cant be re join again,,, yes you can but the spot will remain there,,,, So think first, ask your mind what she want..
Then decide,,,,, Best of luck.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
let him prove his love first without you saying yes.
for me, i would not take a second chance.
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@Bassym (36)
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8 Nov 11
Hello,Icesmile
As you know and every one of us this is a complecated and most confuse topic in life for some people.In my openion and in my experience as i met many people and discussed this topic with them from different level of them ,high edecated .and intellectual and no edecation as well,and good and bad people around the world when i was traveling round the world long time ago.if you believe in some one who loves you and wants to live with you why he left you in the first place ,yes are many circumstance i believe in that but not 3 years ,i belive this man he was in love and real love whith some one else,and i believe many he was in fling for some reasons with you perhaps for used you or got what he wanted in that time and find right one for him .if he has no interst on you he will never come back to you but no love involve for that ,and i hope you will not regret for what you are gpoing to do whith him ,because should be if some one does some thing in the first place like this he will do it again and again i'm sure for that ,because this is about feeling and emotions not mistakes happen about some thing else and second chance for business and argument not for love .......
@lmpalco (89)
• Philippines
27 Oct 11
Do you still love him? You are the only one who can tell if you want him to come back or not. Feel deep into your heart. I your not feeling even small amount of love or care then don't let that guy became part of your life again. besides your only be the one to know if he's sincere or not.
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@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
26 Sep 17
I will not trust him,and wont believe him anymore.I will tell him that I dont want to get involved in a relation with him...
