How to get rid of the pain during ur FIRST LOVE NIGHT
By AnnieHouston
@AnnieHouston (208)
China
October 27, 2011 8:47pm CST
My boyfriend loves me very much, and we didn't have any quarrels since these 3 years. Along with the continuously enhancing love, he wants me very much. I am a girl who's afraid of pain very very much. But because of the love I admit to give my first night to him, but as I thought, during the moment, the pain shocked me, I refuse to go on making love. I know he was disappointed, but I have no courage to go on. Can anybody, especially the female, tell me how to get rid of the pain and how to be brave enough to accept this.
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
28 Oct 11
Are you sure this is your true love???? I don't mean to step on any toes, however if you truly loved this guy, you would do anything for him. Currently, you are making it all about you. I have found that with true love comes Passion. There is a WANT rather than should I. Further,this need should be greater than the need to live. No one can really know the answers except you. Search your soul. Remember, making love with your true love is a Glorious experience. I know you have been with him for three years, however that doesn't mean he is your true love. Only you know. I suspect you already know the answer. Your actions speak for that.
@AnnieHouston (208)
• China
31 Oct 11
Good question! Don't laugh at me, this is my first love though I'm not very young anymore. At the beginning I just felt I've been lonely for so long time, suddenly there came a guy who treats me like his princess and I can strongly felt his love. Along with the time flies, I think I fell in love with him, and now I think he is my true love. However, ur question really hits the point, after all, there's no comparision and no other guy loves me like that, so I know ur doubt and my question is only that I can't persuade myself to bear the shock pain while making love, maybe I have some mental barriers.
@conquer2012 (324)
• China
28 Oct 11
the first that every girl is bound to experience, so do not be afraid of it, just take it easy,and what is important is that you are well prepared to be a real lover of him and be a real woman. It is so natural that the pains came when ML. however, try your best to bear a little and meanwhile to persuade your boyfriend to get it shorter and easier for the first time. good luck.
@AnnieHouston (208)
• China
28 Oct 11
Thank u for ur encouragement. Ur words "well prepared to be a real lover of him and be a real woman" realyy hits me, maybe I should be really prepared for that. Maybe that's my mental hurdle.
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