Living with neighbors

I think, if you only be nice with neighbours will be enough.

Hi Pushhyarag. There is no perfect place on earth and familiarity breeds contempt. Good fences make good neighbors, though. We can all do our share to have a decent neighborhood. Let's start by following the golden rule and showing respect for each other. Let's make it a habit to use the magic words: hi or good morning, thank you, please, bless you, have a nice day, etc. Let's avoid loud music or any kind of noise that would disturb the neighbors. Don't spit anywhere. When walking the dog, always put him on a leash and carry a plastic bag so as not to scatter dog pooh on the ground. Let's not ask personal questions and avoid gossip. I hope that you are happy where you are, my friend. Take care and God bless you.

I am living in a peaceful place. thu sometimes we cannot avoid such nuisance people. like one incident that one neighbor (my beighbors nephew who actually never lives along our palce) visited his uncle and was drunk and blowing his horn at wee hours. that was sooo annoying and he parked his car right infront my gates while blowing his horn.(duh)

We have been living in our neighborhood for so many long years and i can say that we all are in good terms with one another. Though we don't interact with one another , we get to smile or say hello whenever we see each one outside of our fences. When we have some problems like the grasses on our road leading to the main road becomes so thick, mother-in-law would go to each house and talk in contributing to pay a helper to clean the whole area. We contribute whenever there is a need to do so. I can say that we are blessed with good neighbors.

You know how you sometimes talk online about things like good community spirit, think about how we our self want to be good neighbours or even if a person believes that we should all treat our neighbours like we would want them to treat us? Those are all good thoughts then you think about the ones next door or five doors down, whatever, and think how you really think those people stink! OUch, when you realize that those people are actually your real neighours. On the whole, I am lucky to live in a reasonable neighbourhood but it has not been without issues. Many people today are friendly, say hello but that is about the extent of it for fear of being involved with a bad incident.

I think, we are gifted if our neighbours are good enough.

I have lived in many different places and I have had many different kinds of neighbours, some of them have become very good friends and some of them were driving us crazy with their loud music in the middle of the night. One upstairs neighbour was especially noisy and we used to joke about it and say that she probably kept an elephant as a pet and had decided to teach it how to dance. At least it sounded that way In 2002 I lived in an apartment in the north of Denmark and my neighbour was a girl about my age. We became best friends and we spent a lot of time together. She is the best neighbour that I have had.

Co-existence is rather key to say the very least. Look, you don't really have to like your neighbors all that much a lot of the time but you got to find some kind of common ground. Where you can really get along, where you can peacefully coexist. Where there are not any problems of coexisting either. That can be a huge problem to say the very least and one that many people are going to struggle to figure out. I think that I have had my share of good neighbors. I have had my share of neighbors that were a nuisance as well. Loud music, going home to all hours in the morning, who really knows what else was going to be going on. It just makes me want to shake my head from side to side. It is just one of those things where some people have no respect that people might be sleeping at two in the morning. Fortunately those types of neighbors have long since moved on and things remain peaceful. For now.