just learning to forgive and forget..

Philippines
October 28, 2011 1:19am CST
its been a long time we havent got a vacation.me and my hubby..i always ask him to go out of town just the two of us. but unfortunately he always has reason. he have to do this and that. it hurts me, i even cried at night just thinking im just nobody for him.but some reason i think it is easy for me to forgive and forget,rather than suffering from heartache and crying all night. what do you think? did i make a right decision?
4 responses
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
28 Oct 11
i think you made a right decision..but honestly sometimes also feel that way..cos my husband is always busy on his motor..Everytime that he can take a rest day all the thing that he do is cleaning his motor and after cleaning it he go to his friends..I feel that he is always ignoring me..
• Philippines
28 Oct 11
same here..sometimes i just want to get rid of the motorcycle. after doing all the day. he has to go to his friends.. i know the feeling..
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
28 Oct 11
You also really love your motorcycle right?..=)
@Riead68 (51)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 11
Forgiveness is a great quality for any human life. first thing you have this. that means you are lucky. its happens in life. sometimes we want something but time giving us something else what we dnt like. Its a characteristics of human life. I think you know why he is not going.... so just forget it. try to make all the fun at home. making it with you and him.
• Philippines
28 Oct 11
hi jayne, I am not married yet but for me in any kind of relationship time is more important if your hubby is too busy I think you need more patience and understand him for sure he is planning something for you Cheer up girl make yourself busy for awhile and if he is in the good mood try to convince him to have an out of town trip for the two of you happy mylotting
@kaichoukebz (1190)
• Philippines
28 Oct 11
I believe you step the right decision. Just talk with him about that. I know you can resolve that issue. Good luck and god bless. Happy MyLotting!