why long distance relationship is not successful?

Long distance relationship is really hard because human needs compasssion. And the presence of your love one is very important but if you really love each other it can still work out.

Well i guess it can be succesfull. I never fell it but the example would be my friends. Because of works the have to be separated for 4 years but they still can maintain their relationship. I guess the keys for their relationships are communication and trust, but i should say the most important would be trust. If each of them have trust for each other then the relationship will be a success.

Well if you really love each other, then distance is not an issue. Although for someone as clingy as me...I need to have my partner by my side. I'm one of those people who will not survive with a long distance relationship.

There is skype and yahoo chat- where thee is video, so you can see each other even if you are so far away. Just stay loyal and honest to him and tell him how much you love him every day.. maybe that will do.

maybe its time for you to move on also since you give too much too him and not recognizing it then find another man that deserves your love. Long Distance relationship can be successful with the trust on both side and showing love to each other even though your far away from each other.

There is chance for long relation ship to be successful where is real love. But in your situation he is not believing in your love. Having trust between each other makes love successful.

it depends on the people in it if one of them is fake, well then the relationship is fake and won't last the other person will be terribly hurt because most of the time with LDR you don'y find out right away the truth and lies

I think that long distance relationships can work out, but it depends on the two people who are in the relationships. What matters the most is that the two of you are happy about the things that you're doing together, because if there is one of you who is not happy then this means that your relationship probably won't last in the future and also you might resent each other if you find that you're not able to get everything done during the course of your life that you need to do. You should use your own common sense, as you should be able to tell whether or not the relationship is working for you.

Yes,there are long distance relationship that survives. It is love that matters. Love conquers all and I believe in it. Thu some long distance love never succeed, there are other cases that lasts forever.

I have the same problem.she does the same thing to me.Why such people meet if they have to do such deeds.I was better alone before.

My husband and I have been together for over 6 years. Our relationship has been a long distance relationship off and on through out the entire time we have been together. We started dating in highschool and we lived 30 miles apart. That doesn't sound like very far, but for two highschool kids who don't have vehicles, that is a lot. We didn't see each other at school, so we had to wait for weekends and we couldn't always find a ride to the other's city. After highschool we lived together and he found a job that would take him away for two weeks and home for one week. After that job he joined the military. We were apart for 3 months and the only contact was letters to each other while he was in boot camp. (Marines) My job was in Oregon and his was in California. He had to go to school for 8 months before I could move to be with him. I did get to visit twice while he was in school. After I moved in with him, I have been back and forth every summer to work in Oregon. I used to be very insecure. When I finally realized that my insecurity was a problem, I made an effort to change. It didn't happen over night but eventually I was not insecure any more and my husband and I now my husband is my best friend. My advice to you would be to let him know that he is insecure and he is making you feel like he doesn't care any more. He is probably pushing you away because he thinks that you are going to leave. He thinks that if he puts mental distance between you and him, it will make it easier if you leave. Let him know you will wait for him to figure his issues out.

long distance relationships can work their just more difficult for some people. If I were you I would talk openly and honestly with him about what you feel. Ask him if he still loves you and if he wants to make the relationship work. A key though is you both do have to communicate regularly. We can't build on our relationships if we don't talk with those we are in a relationship with. So talk with him about that to. I'm not sure how far apart you both are but perhaps try and get together sometime. Or if that isn't possible do special things for him like send him a surprise gift through the mail.

long distance realtion is not good. good coule must have good communication. just trust me

Long distance relationships have less life.i think it is due to the distance not only in the physical manner but also between the minds.