I couldn't Believe What My Friend Told Me
By Mashnn
@Mashnn (4501)
October 29, 2011 12:01am CST
It sound funny but rather this is what happened to my friend. My friend husband is a person with high status; meaning that working in a foreign country as a diplomat or so. Been a diplomat, you are usually attached to your people or people from the country you come from that sometimes you invite them to come to your house for dinner or so. There is one nun who usually comes to my friend's house and of course being a nun it is really hard for her to suspect anything might be going on behind her back but guess what; the nun is cheating with the husband. Two days ago, the husband was not feeling well, he left his phone unattended. When the wife took the phone, she got curious because the message that was written was from the nun, to check it out; it was very romantic in deed, how sweet honey, I miss your touch and so on. The wife confronted the nun about it and guess what; the nun said, thank you, God bless you. What? What do you think the wife should do now? She is really confused.
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@Mashnn (4501)
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29 Oct 11
Thanks to all. The wife had already confronted the nun before but she denied it, this is the second time is happening. The think the best thing is deal with the husband then the nun too. She should stop the nun from doing such thing again. What made me feel hurt most is when she asked the nun; she had the gut to mention Go's name to; Thank you, God bless. It is a pity the way people can use God to hide behind the curtains.
@spyboysatya (148)
• India
29 Oct 11
It's kind of funny but feeling inside this is not funny, but the curious part is that how could a nun do this to any others husband. And she should be ashamed of that as she is a follower of god and others have faith on her, but this resembles the human need in either conditions means being a nun and taking education of church is not enough for her every need....
And i think your friend should take any action about it mainly should talk to her hubby about this because if he is doing it with a nun then why not with any pros....., but one thing what I had experienced that doing any conversation in this type of matter leads to a unhappy moment could be lead to even divorce, so if she has a way to show her hubby silently perhaps work, and after that seducing him will be the right decision.
@spyboysatya (148)
• India
29 Oct 11
If you think confronting this matter will be a good idea and will work somehow in good manner then you must approach to her about this, and who else know your friend better than you, may be you should teach her how to deal with her husband calmly, cause being involved in a scenario and watching the scenario has different aspect and the person involved in it may loose his/her temper and also could loose to take the right decision...
so, you must guide her, not misguide her...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
The wife must talk with her husband first.
If her husband deny the truth,then she need to asks help from the church where the nun is working.
This is really sad and will surely hurt your friend.
But truth is better than a lie...your friend must accept reality and open her eyes.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
that's terrible indeed...
How can she do it,to think that the wife trusted her and never ever give a doubt.
@Tina30219 (82056)
• Onaway, Michigan
30 Oct 11
The wife should go to the church the nun is from and talk to them.I can't believe a nun would do this. As for the husband I say get rid of him.
@kareemadivina (1230)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
There are just so many hypocrites in this world.They are pretending to very good people and even uses religion to cover their true colors. I just could not understand why the Catholic church are not allowing their main servants to marry. Every human being have needs.Adultery and fornication is worst than marriage,then why practice celibacy?You can still serve God even if you have a family.
@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
29 Oct 11
Well it sounds funny, but it's actually kind of sad. I think that the nun should be reported to the church. My gosh it doesn't mean that because she is a person of the church she can get away with anything. I mean it is in the 10 commandments right: DO NOT COVET THY NEIGHBORS WIFE or in that case husband. Then nuns are supposed to have a vow of celebacy and she broke it.
@creativeh9 (25)
• Pakistan
29 Oct 11
Its really sad to know this...
I think that your friend and her husband should have an open conversation on this topic.They have to plan this conversation.So that not one person will be feeling depressed or low or tired...
This is a sensitive topic so they both have to be in a good state of mind .
I really believe that having an open conversation will make the situation a lot better :)
@seriousnuts (508)
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
That's unbelievable! It is sad how your friend trusted the nun and this is what had happened in return. I agree with the others, she should report it to the church. Perhaps it's better if she shows proof of their affair. The nun doesn't deserve to be a part of the church. She used God's name to gain your friend's trust and yet she betrayed her trust. Her existence in the church would only decrease the morale of the churchgoers.
On the personal level, your friend should also talk with her husband. The nun is a hypocrite, and yet, the husband is also equally at fault.
I feel bad for your friend, Mashnn. I hope she would be strong enough to go through this trial. Stay with her, she needs your support.
@christinewadams (9)
• United States
29 Oct 11
Your friend should have a conversation with her husband. Hopefully they can figure a way to deal with it themselves. The nun should not be involved at all. Your friend has no control over what the nun does, and the nun will have to deal with her own conscience. It will only invite more drama into the situation. If the husband is cheating, hopefully she will leave him because no one deserves that in their life and she can start fresh.
