in what way we should think!
By singuri
@singuri (571)
India
October 30, 2011 5:25am CST
Hi friends i have a very less no of friends but i give more importance to them
.Recently my friend and i had a misunderstandings but i clarified it later after some days i had talked with her normally but i don't know what she find wrong in my discussion and sent me a message which is totally unrelated topic to me i got shocked and later i came to know that she had taken in a wrong way in my words, even though i explained her later but still she is behaving like a crack.I am confused hw to make her normal can u people suggest me
.Recently my friend and i had a misunderstandings but i clarified it later after some days i had talked with her normally but i don't know what she find wrong in my discussion and sent me a message which is totally unrelated topic to me i got shocked and later i came to know that she had taken in a wrong way in my words, even though i explained her later but still she is behaving like a crack.I am confused hw to make her normal can u people suggest me2 people like this
6 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Oct 11
We all are different, we have different ways of thinking, understanding words,sentences and we all have (had) a different life and life experiences.
So it's normal we don't always understand exactly what the other person meant to say because at the moment we hear or read something the mood we are in is important too. So is the fact if we have old (painful) memories which we asscociate with some words or expressions.
There is nothing you can change about that. You did try to explain what you mean so leave her alone. If she really is a friend she will understand but just need some time to get over it. If she can't do that you are no friends at al.
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@knittingpro (289)
• Canada
2 Nov 11
There is always going to be situations between friends that are misunderstandings. If you have explained yourself then that should be enough. Friendships are hard. The hardest relationship to have. Have you asked them why they are behaving differently. Keep the communication open and I hope you both find a resolution.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
30 Oct 11
"live like you, give true feelings, don't show the stuff, be like you".
Simplicity is the best way in friendship and be honest with your friend. Share anything with them, give something to them.
Share your tears and happy moments with them. And when you are busy, just do your work as usual.
Friendship never say "be with me without any work".
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Oct 11
Friend if she cant understand means not good friend because in friendship we should understand the feelings and problem of both. Leave to think about her at least try if she dont want to talk with you.
@airkulet (2700)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
Stay calm for a while, don't explain much to your friend as if you are guilty. Let both of you cool down and give some space to each other. I'm sure this is just misunderstanding that happen most to any friendship. Soon you will both forget about it and just laugh about it
@Riead68 (51)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 11
Its happens between friend.
Do you ever think why she become upset, because she care you too much. if you like someone and he/she shock you a little bit it will be big shock for you. same thing happen to your friend.dnt worry. he will understand.
what you will do is, go to her. meet with her. face to face talk. then everything will be fine.
