problems and worries in life!!!!

oh my God........oh no.......from where did you get into this habit of gambling.......I am shocked.....you are in such a mess now........what will you do now.......first of all you have to stop gambling......you have to swear that you will never gamble again, only then you can find some way to earn money and sincerely try to get rid of this debt. I assume that you are a bachelor and do not have any family responsibilities on your shoulders.And if I am right then you have to be brave and start earning money , working hard, and pay off all your debts....nothing is impossible....if you will work hard you can do it....I am also working hard....God always blesses hard workers. so do try sincerely to do some honest work and never gamble again.May God give you strength to make right decision

Hi soulpatrol84, Better get rid of this habit of gambling because it can ruin your whole life. My husband was sailing in the same boat as you. As a result of which I am suffering today. Some of the loan sharks harrased me so much that I had to finally borrow from banks and repay these loans to save my life and those of kids. As a result today half my salary is going in repaying these bank loans for which in my free time I work online for my expenses. Better stop this gambling habit immediately.

its a tough habit to break, and yes, im a bachelor and half of my salary goes to the installments i pay every month. i really regret getting involved in gambling. im not trying to give credit to myself, but im indeed a hard worker. but a wrong turn in life had made me come to the point of helplessness.. but no problem is too big too handle.. may god bless me and all of us in finding the correct path.. :)

ha ha ha.....Deepak, I did not tell you to solve my problem, I asked you about your most serious problem right now, about which you did not mention anything...very clever.....

Hi DD, I think Deepak is right now, as you must be knowing, enjoying the glory of his much deserved success in workplace. Congratulations Deepak. And if D you allow me to add, he is the kind of person who has made his and others problems easier. I wish I could be cool and beautiful like him. Even though, right now, I am comparatively much better off than a few years earlier, still life without problem is a utopia. I am dealing with little bit of untoward problems in office. It does not directly involve me but it does affect my sanity. and I do not know what to do and how to avoid it. Still haven't learned to say no to the things I should - probably the reason why I suffer so much emotionally. I just hope you overcome your problems soon. Please do take care of yourself. Lotsa love.

Dearest mimpi, first of all I want to thank you for coming and joining me like a real little sister.I have been missing you too. I agree every word that you have spoken about Deepak....there is no doubt he is a wonderful person and a true friend. It is ok mimpi.....if you have bravely faced major problems and did overcome them, then these minor problems are just nothing. You should ignore them and should not torture yourself emotionally. You will surely overcome your problems and smile. Please take care of yourself.

I can understand your pain Mayka.......soon I will be reaching the same stage.......in another few years even my kids will leave us and settle down and then we will be left alone.....How many kids you have, and what about your husband....why are you alone. Speaking about bank loans.......it really scares me.....will you be able to get rid of all the debt alone........

My hubby expired 11 years ago. Had a lot of problems after that. kids felt they were better off without me and the problems so they have gone their own way. That has left me alone with the problems that my hubby had kept back for me!!!!! I am finding it difficult to repay the bank loans all alone but there seems to be nothing that I can do. Just work harder and earn more and repay them somehow. I have some good friends who help me in their own way and that is how I am managing just now.

being alone can be really stressfull.. but its a good thing you managed to get yourself occupied and busy as it gets your mind off the bigger things.. trust me, loans can get really messy if you don't know how to manage it..

HA HA HA......right.........I agree.......... Thanks for your reply.

Dear Bluedoll, You said everything like saying nothing....I am confused, did not understand your problem at all.Besides, I wrote (not details) for those who may not feel comfortable to discuss, but if someone wants to talk freely about his/her problem, then he/she is welcomed.Please clarify what is your actual problem.Thanks.

Bluedoll, I think you need a break.....you should go on vacation on high hills and take deep breath in fresh air and enjoy the beautiful nature gifted by God to tired people like you and me........I think I understood your problem...it is just like mine........confused with your own self.....

My problem is closely related to yours. I wish there was more money to do things, that is all. I don't often stop at just this one focus though. The best way I can explain a "problem" is in story. My name is Enthusiastic Cheery. "Where do you live," asks Solutions Sam the owner of the second hand shop? In the bonks. Where? She means the Bonkers but she is not from there and would rather be on the other side of the tracks living in Long Story Island and so hangs her head down and mubbles. ____ Sorry for the lack of clarity on my part if you did not understand my meaning, the danger of writing about problems is not one of lack of detail and saying nothing but of expressing them in discussion so that the entire servers of mylot, labour from over abundance and why it might even extend to the internet to bring it down then crashing every computer in the world.- just joking on that silly thought!

Thank you enelym001, I hope what you have said will come true and I will really wake up one sunny morning, free of all my debts......that will be the best day of my life.

think less and worry less..

I agree with you friend that we should discuss our problems with our loved ones and that may help to bring out solutions to our problems. But when it comes to financial problems....why will anyone pay your debts........this is a problem that you have to sort out alone. What do you say.........

same with me kingparker, I too , foolish and immature,dump headed, I hate myself for making such blunder mistakes in life, but what to do , as they say making mistakes proves that we are humans and not God.. We have created this problem and only we will have to find our way out from this.......lets be strong and face it more like challenge and less like problem.Best of luck to both of us.

Thanks anusha, I am happy that you have no problems and may that day never come when you will have to share any problem on mylot. May you always be happy as you are now.God bless you. Thanks for your reply.

Thank you for your encouragement friend.....yes we have to face our problems and fight bravely to fulfill our aim. Thanks for your reply.

Dear GroWin, I really liked your attitude and your presentation.... You are right........lets treat problem like challenge and challenge like enemy and start the war...... Your reply has really given me new strength and here after I will try to think more positively rather than crying negatively.....Thank you very much for your bright reply. With regards. apsara60

You are right Pachkov, it all depends on our determination. Once we make up our mind to do something, then nothing will stop us. Thanks for your reply.

I wish these children could understand how much it hurts parents when they behave so rude with them. I too face this problem with my son sometimes. He is 20 years old.It really surprises me to see how children change with age and time. All that I can say is that you should leave him alone for some time.....only time will tell you what should be your next step. If he comes back to you....then you can think that you did not waste your life after your children .....and if he does not care for you anymore, then you should ask God, WHAT HAPPENED???????GOD WHY IS HE TORTURING ME........

She will surely come back, may be it will take some time, but she will come because soon she will also miss all those beautiful moments that two of you had spent together.....give her some time and all will be fine.. Thanks for sharing.