Are you agree with me? Love can only spoil the life

hi surekha, Like what the song said Too Much Love Can Kill You but I can't see the point of taking your own lives because someone declined you. We can only live once and life is too short to be wasted. Happy mylotting

That is true. There are so many pretenders out there. Those who go to certain crazy extend to get what they want then they disapper without trace. It is hard to find true love nowadays.

First off, true love does exist (I know: I have it!). The problem isn't love itself; it's the pressure people put on love to be a certain way - to match their fantasy or romantic ideal - that's the problem. Everyone's seen so many Disney films and romantic comedies that they expect real life to be like that... and it isn't. There's simply too much pressure for everything to be perfect and it's too easy to walk away when things don't measure up to the impossibly-high standards people expect. My lady and I have been through some really rough times but we don't give up. We compromise, we talk, we support each other, we work things out and we keep laughing - THAT is love. Why do you think the marriage vows have always included "for better or worse, richer or poorer"?

Love can not say "do bad to your loved one". love can share the love only. Love gives sacrifice. Love is a great word, It is universal. We are not use that great word, for these evil guys those who are killing the innocent girls with the name of love. We have strong women political leadership in our country in the world. Even though, we have no strong rules on this type of incidents.

I don't think it is the love but perhaps the misconception of being in love with perhaps the wrong person. Love is a beautiful part of love and I live in love with someone so I can't say it has spoiled my life, in fac it enhanced my life. So perhaps in this and similar cases it is that they are in love and or think they are in love with the wrong type of person. Some at times ae not even in love with the actual person but more with the concept of wanting to love and or be in loved that they opt for the complete wrong person.

Ya i agree with you bahbijii :-) But now a days many are ding because of lust , infatuation and immature mind but not because of love. they think that that's love but that is not love. Real love never spoil the lives.

Well from the cases you stated above, i do not think those are love at all..or true love that is. Because as far as i know true love means knowing how to let go and knowing how to move on..and knowing how to accept no matter how much it hurts..:) For me love does not spoil.. f its real love, you will know how to endure the pain and get through the pain.

Now i think i need to believe in you when it comes to love or being inlove. I feel this way but it makes me hurt until now. I know i will be hurt someday but i am not prepared when break up was happened. There is no true love exists in this earth except the Lord that gave us life and true love for us. But boys...????? i dont think so. The same as girls too in today's generation. You said its only 5 percent only knows love.. How big is the difference..

I beg to disagree with you aurekharathi that love can only spoil life. On the contrary, it is a wonderful thing that God has created for us humans to enjoy. God designed love to perfectly suit man's needs. He made it sweet and lovely so that we can savor love's nectar. He made love adorable so that in the procreation process man can fully enjoy his stay on earth through his offsprings. He made love a uniting factors so that lovers though separated by distance, seas, mountains race, creed, etc can fall in love with each other. Love is the rationale why we're here on earth IT IS MAN'S WRONGDOINGS THAT MAKE LOVE SOUR AND BITTER. PLATO- At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.

Young generations nowadays are very emotional and mistook attraction for love, they do not know what is true love. I guess parents has to play their role effectively when their children reach the teenage years. If I am a parent, I would not allow my children to watch the soap operas promoting young love, early marriages and teenage pregnancies. I would also engage their attention to sports or other worthy activities like arts, languages and other that sparks their interest. I believe if they are busy with some projects, they would not give attention to teenage relationships.

HI sis! Oh please sis. Now you are discouraging us to not fall in love because true love never exist??? But I believe in true love.. I know that human love will never last long except God's. That is the true love for me. So we can't have high expectation when we fall in love with someone as the love will not last long as there is possibilities we will change, or we die and other obstacles. I always bear in mind, from my observations, looking at those who fall in love, teach me to not to give my love hundred percents so whenever there are chance for a couple to not happily ever after, they will not come out with sad endings like you mentioned above. Just give more your love to God, spare some for yourself and family and only then give the left to the one you love. Only then when something bad happen you know that you love yourself more and you still got others so you will not do bad things to end the suffer.(^^)(^^)

I am so sorry but I can not agree with you here in this aspect. Love can actually inspire, and make things better. When trouble arises from love problems, it only means one thing. It only means that one is incapable of responsibility, and irresponsibility is the one destroying the harmony of life. It just so happens that it was sparked from love. If it is not from love, the irresponsibility would also be sparked somewhere else. It is just the same.

Good. You are of next generation. But you are supporting our ideas. great. But young boys and girls may not agree with you. have a good day.

Hmmmm talkative women talking about love what is happening after marriage why you are telling this love can spoil life. Fanta is agree with you new generation love is not succeed. I always teach to my daughter child dont fall in love first make the career.

I believe in true love, for mature adults. I guess it is hard for me to beliecve in it after what my ex husbdand did. But I have seenlots of adult couples who have true love. As for young teenagers, I think it does not exist. they are not mature enough or experienced enough to know true love. They would disagree though. MY neice is only 16 and she is in love with a 19 year old and has been for two years or more. He is not a good person, but she is sucked in by the love.

Yes i agree with you Surekha beti, too much of any thing is bad, can spoil life, we need to avoid that always.. Thanks for sharing Have a nice day ahead.

There are lots of failures however I guess there are more success in love. But not so much, may be just a ratio of 51-49 in favor of success.

Most of the love which is seen in present is really fake. Boys cheats girls to enjoy their beauty and in case of boys, boys are cheated by girls for good life. As mentioned only ninenty percent are and the rest is fake.