Secrets for a lasting relationship
By kaichoukebz
@kaichoukebz (1190)
Philippines
October 30, 2011 9:04am CST
I have a one friend who changes his girlfriend every month. I do not know if what is his problem. Maybe, he is not contented and that is why his relationship with his girlfriend does not last long.
Dear friends and fellow mylotters, could you share some tips to a lasting relationship?
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10 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
hi kaichoukebz,
I do believe nothing last forever
Regarding relationship we must know how to trust and be contented with our partners so the relationship will grow.
happy mylotting
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
hi dear,
I thought you are lessen your vodka session so do I
what is the suspicious looks for???????????
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Oct 11
How can someone give tips if it's not clear if there is a problem and if what the problem is?
Perhaps your friend likes to try out every girl in the world?
Perhaps your friend doesn't know yet who he really likes or what he really likes? If so he has to find that out by trying.
It sounds to me he has no problem getting a girl friend.
Is keeping one a problem to him at all?
As long as he is not open for a serious relationship there is no need to give advice or great tips for a long lasting relationship.
I do believe that if he really finds the girl of his dreams everything will be different and you won't recognize him again.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Nov 11
The key to any realtionship is communication, then trust if you can't trust the person you are with then you can't really love them with all of your heart. Spending time together is also good for a realtionship and not having everything in common. You want to have things to share but not everything.
@devi53 (347)
• India
31 Oct 11
I think your friend have some mental problem, why he is doing like this,is he cheating the girls.If two persons have understanding between them it will definitely lasts. I have seen very old couples they mutually loving each other and living happily . Each and every one has good and bad characters if we understand them thoroughly between each other and behave accordingly then that relationships remain long lasting.
@SwordsPlay (34)
• United States
1 Nov 11
"I hav a one friend who changes his girlfriend every month."
What's wrong with being a player?
Some people choose certain lifestyles.
We shouldn't judge.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
take a decision, and man up to it. there is no secret to lasting relationship. i think one simple task is to make the relationship work by making it work for both sides. for me, the true measurement of a man is the one that sticks to his decision to love one woman for life as long as the relationship is on. reneging to the words of love is not a measurement of manhood.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
Well,even boys can change any time ,same to a woman..Sometimes they are boaring to always see the person,or not like it sometimes and etc..
The only need for long last relationship is to love each otherr,faithful,understanding,honest,respect,praying working each other as a team...Even in the midts in trials they should working each other and solve it.
@jomarie2011 (48)
• Sweden
30 Oct 11
Probably because he just doesn't love the girl and just go into a relationship with someone without any commitment..
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
for me, those who changes their girl/boyfriends once in a while are not really into serious relationships..maybe they are only mutual understandings..or they are just enjoying or playing with feelings..
i don't think that you'll have a long lasting relationship if you truly love the person..and for me, basically, if you want a long lasting relationship, the persons involved must:
love their selves, because how can you love other person if you don't love yourself
really love each other, not just only they like each other
respect their differences
be understanding
have open communication
have time for the relationship and time for themselves
have commitment to the relationship
have contentment
i know there are lot of ingredients for a long lasting relationship, but it is also important that the persons involved enjoy their relationship..because it won't be the years we'll remember, but the memories..