Have you ever feel very upset when something will never happen?

I have often been in a situation where my plans didn't turn out the way that I expected, and the things that I was looking forward to just didn't happen. When I am in that situation my initial reaction is disappointment and sadness. I am sad that I have to give up the things that I had been dreaming about. When some time have passed I am usually try to look at it from a different perspective and make new plans. Sometimes the bad things that happen are actually a blessing in disguise. When my ex-boyfriend broke up with me I was really, really sad, because I thought that we were going to spend the future together. I cried a lot and I thought that I was never going to get happy agsin. After a while I moved into my own apartment and I met my husband. The truth is I much happier today than I was with my ex-boyfriend. I thought that it was the end of the world when he broke up with me, but it was actually a good thing, because otherwise I would never had met my husband and I would have missed out on the happiness that I have today.

Yes , I feel that , I get so frustrated when I realized that my dream is not in my hands. I just leave everything in God s hands. He will know what is better for me. Time is the one that cure everything. just give some time .

I am that way sometimes chen, like when its Sunday, and i usually wants us, the family to go out and have fun..but sometimes hubby has other things in mind and it does not happen..often times it makes me upset beccause i expected a lot and it does not happen..so yes i do get angry but it doesn't last because i know its irrational and childish.

When we expect something and it never materialize,I am sure that would be frustrating. I am sure to feel bad also and will be hurt either. So,sometimes we should not expect too much.

I just really figure out that is life sometimes. There are going to be a lot of times where we have these big hopes but they get derailed. Could it be a temporary derailment? Of course it can. There are many times where a huge dream could just get knocked off the tracks for a couple of years but finally we pull ourselves right up ready for the battle at hand. There are just times where delays happen, such is life. I think that it is just a waste of breath to get upset about something not happening. I mean just because it hasn't happened, doesn't mean that it won't happen eventually. Life can be unpredictable if nothing else. Therefore, I just feel the need to roll with the punches and move forward with what life takes me, where it takes me, and just enjoy what I can about life. Things go right, things go wrong, that's just the nature of the animal. That is just life. Hang on for the ride.

It happend many times that I looked forward to something and it did not happen. By now I don't feel angry or upset anymore. I make my own plans and I know which people will cancel in the end. Having a dream about something that will never happen is something else. It depends on the kind of dream. Some dreams are great to keep us alive and only because we are able to dream about. They are not ment to be to come true they are just there to be dreamed.