I move the furniture around, he says put them back

I do re-arrange the 'view' of the house whenever i feel tired of seeing it. Not very often but I do , it's a totally a new look. I removed some things and put something new. Most often , when I do that, people in the house compliments. They like the ambiance it gives and the freshness it brings. re-arranging aside from cleaning thoroughly is a relaxation for me. I enjoyed doing it and I guess because of that feeling while doing it, the positive energy is radiated to the ambiance and so the effect is really relaxing. Like landscaping, indoor re-modelling is an easthetic art.Usually it enhances the indoor beauty and the inner beauty of the person doing it. Maybe, the next time you will do the re-modelling try to consult him so that he would feel his importance in the house.:-) Opposing or resistance to what you are doing is a sign of something within him that needs to be recognized.:-) Be sensitive. Make him part of it and you will see the effects of it in your relationship.:-) good luck.

i don't. it's hubby's role. though at times, i move the pieces of furniture when it is necessary. but i love to clean and get rid of the dusts and dirt and arrange things in order.

Good day Katcarneo, Before, I do usually make rearrangement of our furniture bi-monthly. As I am doing this together with my schedule general cleaning. But since I was not here at our home for five years, nobody continue the reaarrangement. Though they still do the cleaning, but, nobody wants to rearrange the furnitures. According to them, it is very tedious thing to do. And when I go back, they are opposing whenever I do some rearrangement. Yet there were times, they have told me, next time to hang the furnitures instead.

Well, it is good to always move your furniture because that means that these areas in the house had been cleaned. I am not really fond of moving the furniture a lot because our space in the house is quite small and limited.

In your story you haven't mentioned that he wants to put them back. But then like what you have stated in the last few lines, I guess he doesn't have time to rearrange things back himself. I do clean the house a lot but then it's very rare to have rearrangements, unless it's general cleaning where I am in the mood to clean all of it. There are times I wanted someone's help so I do cleaning when it's weekend and most of the family members are all present.

I seldom moved furniture in the house because it is my husband who does it. He loves to experiment and I just keep my mouth shut whenever i am displeased the way the furniture are set. But I am happy that my husband spend his creativeness in arranging things around the house.

I do. but very rare. I like new things, but not with my room and its decoration. once I change the decoration I mean move things around just to make a new look, I will feel excited at first, but then I will get some awkward feeling and it makes me to have to adjust myself to my new room look and where things are. it sometimes feels annoying so I dont move my things in my room. I will rearrange my furniture maybe just once every half year, if I remember it-which I tend to do otherwise. I dont have problems to change other part of the house though. my mom likes to rearrange things. my living room, dining room, were missed from my mom;s spotlight. LOL especially kitchen the place she likes hang around in. I help her once every two months to rearrange kitchen. LOL