Should you make a child apoligize?

@gjax57 (897)
United States
November 2, 2011 7:22am CST
I think if they are 7 years old and they do something wrong to someone and they know it's wrong I think you should make them say sorry, what do you think?
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@JulyKing (110)
• China
2 Nov 11
Good evening,gjax! Of course,everyone should apologize for what they did wrong no matter how old they are!A seven years child is old enough to responsible for his behaviors,people in this age have known the thing is right or wrong and also understood many things,their parents should teach them more seriously! Apologizing to others is not a difficult thing for everyone ,even a child,and sometimes we should tell them patiently that they did something wrong and responsible for it! Have a good day!^_^
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@gjax57 (897)
• United States
2 Nov 11
Hi Julyking, I feel the same way but unfortunately some just dont get it!!
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
20 Jul 12
Personally I feel by the time that a child is 7, they should know the difference between right and wrong, and be able to apologize to someone when they know they might have hurt them, etc. If you are not teaching a child that by that age, often you will end up having a wild unruly child who will get into a lot of trouble. So remembering to train them to remember to use respect and say "I'm Sorry!!" never hurt anyone at all.
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
20 Jul 12
Thanks, I sooooooo agree with you there!!
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
2 Nov 11
I think you are absolutely correct with your thinking! If they don't realize that it's important to say I'm sorry, then they will think there's no consequences to their actions. They also would be learning that other peoples feelings don't matter. Not only is it teaching them good manners, it's teaching them the Golden Rule, compassion for others feelings, and what it means to interact correctly with people.
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
2 Nov 11
Thank you joyful one well said, I am getting dizzy watching the man in the box lol
@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
31 Jan 12
I think children know what´s right and wrong before they are seven years old. They will learn sooner if their parents teach them though. It is not just a matter of asking them to say they are sorry, but grown ups have to teach them with their example.
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
2 Nov 11
Hi gjax, don't you think 7 years old is too late for a child to teach to say sorry and the likes, becaused on my personal experiences, as early as less than a year onward I already taught them those magic words so along they way of their grow up it was inculcated now in their minds those words and that's successful upon my children learn talking they already say thank you, i' m sorry, excuse me although not as clear but they can say and carry as such until they grew up. Good night everyone!
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
2 Nov 11
Hi gelaya, absolutly I think much earlier as well I tought early on with my kids. I mentioned 7 because thats how old my friends son was at the time when he stomped on someones foot and was never told to say he was sorry....his Mom said that you shouldnt force a child to say sorry geez
• Philippines
8 Aug 12
It is not wrong to make a child apologize. if they are the ones who committed the mistake, they should know and learn how to say sorry. If not, when they grow up, they will have a hard time accepting their mistakes and they will have a hard time in saying sorry. This has already happened to one of the kids I know. She has a hard time saying sorry and I feel it is because she was treated like she was always right when she was a kid. happy mylotting :) This is just my opinion.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Nov 11
I certainly agree w/u. I wish all parents still taught their children manners like they use to do but seems like more don't than do.