Somebody didn't like me: insecure?
By bessyjanmayi
@bessyjanmayi (278)
Philippines
November 2, 2011 9:33am CST
I really don't understand why there are people who always give me a cold shoulder. I have a co-teacher in the school, she is so smart. She graduated as Magna CumLaude from her school. She's not talking to me. When I say Hi to her, it seems that she don't hear me and don't even say hello. I told my friend, who is also my co-teacher in the school, on why is it like that. She told me that probably she insecured to me. I told her, why she will be insecured when in fact, I'm not that smart compared to her, I don't have a beauty queen beauty. I don't understand why. What the best thing to do about this? I don't want to have an enemy inside the school premises. I want everybody to be my friends. Please help me.
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6 responses
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
12 Nov 12
You make me smile with your topic. Well, there are people who simply doesn't like other people for no reason. What I could suggest is, smile at her even if she won't smile back specially when she's alone and if she won't smile still ask her what's her problem with you. Then if she won't say anything... forget her.
@celticeagle (168269)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Nov 11
I tend to agree with your friend. People who might graduate as Magna Cumlaude have spent alot of time studying and not socializing. They may be shy, inhibited, insecure and self concious. This also means that these type people don't know how to talk to others and may have a problem.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 11
Maybe it has something to do with her past. Maybe back when she was a student she was a victim of a bullying, and maybe you remind her of her past. I never saw a bullying in my past, but from what i watched on TV, the victim of bullying is usually someone who is smart but cannot socialize well.
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
3 Nov 11
I think it's best to leave her alone. If she doesn't reciprocate and keeps doing so, I think she's just not worthy to be your friend. Maybe when you see her the next time, just smile and walk away.
@knittingpro (289)
• Canada
2 Nov 11
Some people are insecure and jealous of what we have. It's that simple. If this teacher is not talking to you then it's not worth worrying over. Rudeness is not acceptable and if there is no reason for it there is nothing you can do. You can suggest a meeting to talk about how you feel. That is what I would do. Anything more than that is out of your hands unfortunately.
@ralphs (209)
• Philippines
4 Nov 11
if you're not that beauty, and your not that smart, i think your co-teacher have a problem a personal problem that's why she don't have a time to talk to you or maybe you have a problem to your co-teachers i don't know that's only my opinion, because no one in this world will unlike somebody or triggered somebody with no reasons at all maybe there's a problem in her or in you. think of it.
