sugar daddy vs real boyfriend...

Hi surfer222, I think only someone who has no moral values and fear for God will do such a thing. Destroying someone else's happiness for the sake of own is a complete act of selfishness. Women with this kind of attitude do not care about anything or anyone. They will do anything to serve their own purpose and that includes seducing married men. Perhaps they come from broken homes and that could be the reason why they have no respect for family ties. People aren't inherently good and these types of women prove exactly that.

One of my fellow employee's at one time, in the 1990's, had a sugar daddy. She wanted one real bad and hung around a bar she knew some hung out at. Missy had a suger daddy for quite awhile and he was from Italy. He did business here in the US on a regular bases. Missy knew he was marrried and didn't care. All she cared about was his money! Her suger daddy took on trips like to Italy and New York City for example. Bought her expensive clothes,jewerly,purses and paid for the redecorating of her kitchen she owned at the time! Missy said she broke up with him but I really am not sure on that! Missy then married a teacher. They are still married even though they went through a seperation and an almost divorce! Missy is a b&tch and why her husband puts up with her is anyones' guess! Since the suger daddy years,Missy still loves Coach purses,throws out,not cheap.work shoes before they are broke in and then goes out and buys new shoes! On top of this she will from time to time brag about her suger daddy! She is very proud of the relationship they had! After knowing this and Missy,I think most woman want a suger daddy so they can get spoiled with the things they can't afford! Like Missy they could care less about him being married! They just want to be A spoiled mistress!

life is so stranger for me... some beautiful woman tend to prefer a mature man than a fresh man.. sometimes they choose mature man not because the money but they need some "motivation and better protection " and she only get from mature man

This is not something that I would ever personally do and not something that most of the people that I know would do. The only reason that I can think of that women would do this is because of the fact that they are able to get by without any kind of committment when they are dating a man that is already married. They are able to get something from him but they don't have to be tied down to be with him all the time.

It's been proven that women are more attracted to married men. The reasoning behind it is, a married man provides this image of security and stability. When a single woman sees a man providing for his family, they're drawn to it. It's been proven. I, myself, would never find the thought of a married man in itself appealing, because if they'd cheat on their wife with me, they'd cheat on me as well. So to me they'd appear more as a man who is unfaithful to his loved ones, as opposed to someone whose secure and stable.

Women who date married guys or have sugar daddys have no self esteem. The reason women date married men is because most married men are family oriented and they are attracted to that. Another reason is the thrill of having that forbidden fruit and it's forbidden to date a married man. These types of women truly don't have any self respect because they give themselves to someone who is already taken and can't find someone who is single and maintain a healthy relationship. Women who want sugar daddys, I don't understand those either. If you are smart and intelligent why would you depend on someone else to take care of you. You should want to stand on your own too feet and not having someone with fat pockets take control or have power.

Hmm i am not really sure why they would go for married man.. p But personally i believe there are women who go for married man because of money, some go for married man for that thrill of being the mistress.. they feel like they can still have that man amidst the fact that that man is married.. weird..people do are twisted in some ways

psychologically, some women simply mess up with their mind, and they don't see those married men might simply looking for a fling outside of their marriage. They may not be serious to develop a relationship with them. That is their choice, and that is their path to continue on. I can't make much comment on it. Hopefully those ladies who so naive will wake up someday.

I think that some people prefer married persons just because of the fact that they are married. I don't know why like you mentioned they would want to ruin a marriage. I feel sad though for these individuals because they hurt other individuals (the innocent mate) and it only hurts how people view them.

why choosing a sugar daddy while in the end we will fall in a real boyfriend?

I was told by one woman that she dates married men because they are safer. They tend not to take a disease home to their wives, so he won't give her one. I do not agree with or respect women who do this just relaying information.