Customer Service Representative - they are people with feelings!
By bluangel628
@bluangel628 (383)
Philippines
November 2, 2011 9:45pm CST
This is an appeal to each and every person who utilizes customer service help lines. I'm working as a customer service representative for one of the big insurance companies in the country. And I'm unfortunately assigned to claims department. For those who does not know how claims department customer service works, let me give you a little background. We are the frontliners of the company. To elaborate, we are the shock absorbers of people who wanted someone to listen to him or her while he or she vents out :: we take all the blame and apologize for mistakes we don't commit :: the middlemen between the customers and our bunch of claims processors who seem not to get their work straight and finally a pawn to our supervisors who just tells us what to do without listening to the situation or scenario of a problem.
Actually venting out is not a problem. You vent out about the company we work to is not really a problem with us. We take down notes and have our supervisors addressed that. Other than that, we can't do anything. And this is what others can't get. They wanted us to do the impossible. Well, not that we don't try but we do. We even jeopardize our job because we go over the workflows we were asked to follow. And this all because of customer service satisfaction. But do we get anything out of this, none. Instead we are being shouted upon by these customers who always think we don't know what we're doing and that we are not doing the best we could. If these people would only know how we handle their concerns, to the point of arguing with superiors, they may have given little consideration before they call us names.
I hope and appeal to anyone who reads this, to think twice before shouting at someone who's trying to assist you on something. We, customer service representatives are you're ally when you need services done because we are the ones who bombards those people in the clerical and processing units on how they should do their thing. Calling us names and being racist on us is not of use. In our department for instance, if a customer is rude, we just do what that person instructs us to do, we don't go the extra mile to have their claims paid, heck, we even pray it gets denied. It's the only way we could get even with them.
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14 responses
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
3 Nov 11
I have talk with very nice and sweet customer service rep. but there are some that hung up the phone in your ears when you say you don;t to buy anything.
Something that bothers me about them is they have a script and it doesn't matter what you ask and because phone call is recorded they only keep reading the script, and that is annoying.
But of course they desire to be treated with respect because they are just doing their job.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
3 Nov 11
Insurance claims differ than other customer rep jobs as you are dealing with people who are upset because of loss to begin with. Part of the job in dealing with these people is to understand and have some compassion for that. I am not saying that anyone should put up with blatant rudeness and definitely not racial slurs. Sometimes just a kind, calm voice can go far in diffusing and calming a person.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
I do agree with sid556. A calm voice plus a very long patience will be of good use in an insurance claims customer service department. To Rosa26, the customer service handling of most companies are gearing towards customer service satisfaction so you may be one of those who'll happily get the results of that. That practice will no longer be done to you, that I can say. And if it need be, the survey after your call will be your tool in correcting their attitude. Big companies wants their customers to be taken cared of. Thanks for responding and happy mylotting.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
3 Nov 11
I understand this but also customer service reps need to listen to the concern of the customer and if they cannot help or do anything, they need to immediately transfer the person to someone who can.
I cannot tell you how many times I explain my problem briefly and the person who fielded my call immediately responds with 'I can't do anything about that' or 'that isn't in my jurisdiction' - basically it is up to someone higher up in the company like a manager or team leader to take action on my problem. This means I need to speak with that person to solve things, and when I actually call customer service, I expect to have my problem solved, not waste 20 minutes conversing with a customer service representative who already told me right away that they cannot fix my problem.
I don't call to vent, although I may vent while describing the issue I am having. The most recent issue I had was probably with my cell company, and I ask them right away to connect me to someone else if the person I reach first cannot do anything, technically, legally, etc. I don't want to waste my time OR theirs, so I really ONLY want to speak with a person who is able to do something, otherwise it is a complete waste of time.
I have worked as a first-line customer service rep - for a bank. I have also worked in claims processing. The thing is, each person should be fully responsible for what each does or doesn't do, and customers should be able to speak directly with the person who either did do their job correctly or DIDN'T do their job correctly. Only then would blame be heaped on the correct person - the one who dropped the ball. I also believe that customer reps should be able to solve customers' problems or complaints without having to go to managers and higher bosses, otherwise what is even the point of reaching a customer service rep in the first place??
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Mommyboo, in my case if I can't handle the job or can't do much more on a said claim I even offer a supervisor. I come across with customers who would tell me, hon, it's not you and I don't have anything against you, i just need my claims to get paid. With that tone I would readily find a supervisor for that person or stretch everything I have to help. I mean, I know it's the customer's right to get the service that they deserve because I myself is on that same spot from time to time. As a customer I rant about the company but not attack the person I'm speaking with, personally. The people I'm appealing to are people who are way over being rude. Like one time my supervisor, back when he was an agent, he was politely assisting this lady with regards to her claims. But the lady, instead of giving the details of her claims started attacking my supervisor personally telling him how incompetent he is and how useless he is to her. If you're in his position, what would you do? What he did, he stopped typing, forget about being nice and ask, what do you want? do you want your claims get processed and paid or do you want to spend the whole day understanding that I'm not as incompetent as you think and that your barking on the wrong tree? The lady asked for someone higher, he said, well ma'am you can start praying, talk to God. Good thing for my supervisor, customer service satisfaction is not yet implemented back then. I don't patronize what he did but I'm just showing you a picture of the rudeness I'm saying. Now that we're starting customer service satisfaction survey, we have to endure such attitude from time to time.
I do understand where your coming from and I'm happy for your response. Happy mylotting.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
3 Nov 11
HI Blueangel,
I actually did that job in the auto claims dept before moving on to adjust and settle claims. I know it is hard to listen to someone who is all worked up but the thing is, most of the people that are calling have suffered a loss and some are injured or had loved ones injured. As hard as it can be to listen to, it is pretty much the nature of the job. Even when I moved on to adjusting, I still got calls asking how their claim was progressing, when they would get their check or disputing the amount. Almost always I was able to calm them down and reassure them that we were doing the best we could to get their claim settled as quickly as possibe. Once in a while, I'd get a customer that was beyond rude. In that case, I'd forward the call to my boss.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Yes. I do understand them. I'm a born empathic. I always, always put my self in their shoes. But of course when they go way over rude, well, that's really a different thing. Thanks for responding and happy mylotting.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Nov 11
It's not my attitude to shout at costumer representatives. I know that they are just employees doing their job, so we don't have to shout or quarrel with them. Instead , we should be polite and gracious in speaking to them, lest they will delay intentionally to get even, our requests.
However, some customer representatives are arrogant and discourteous, that though their mouth speaks of nice things, you can see from their eyes that they hate serving the customer. When this happens, one cannot control showing the nasty side of themselves too.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
I have a friend who's like that, not born to be a customer service representatives. I told him he should find a new job where he'll not annoy people but where he can put to use his arrogant side. He actually got fired for being nasty. Now he's a sales representative and a part time mortgage phone collector. Thanks for responding and happy mylotting.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
An arrogant speaking customer service representative will always earn the ire of the customers. He's indeed better off to work in a back room office.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
3 Nov 11
Every one got hurt by the Hurtful words..We all do have feelings to be hurts,and wish to fight back..
Your job is your job to do,sometimes your costumers did not even understand how hard you help them, and they just say something that is unwanted words to say...
Costumers are not perfect,they do mistakes and all you too and me also..I think they got angry ,and say something and because they pay money ..Patience,just give it to praer..
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Yes and a lot of it. Thanks for responding and happy mylotting.
@ehleonkyrietales (452)
• Philippines
3 Nov 11
Someone just got into your nerves earlier I suppose? Well, there are people like that - inconsiderate, self-centered, egocentric, and selfish. But to you blueangel - who understands the situation better - you should give credit for your intellect. Intellect in doing your job well - you don't have to get their praises though - and intellect in understanding the situation better than they did. The positive thing is that you didn't do what those lowlifes where acting and sunk into the level of their ignorance. We live in the world of equality - but it depends of your manners. And that's how you are being measured and respected. So, don't feel bad, we love and respect you here. *Wink
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
YUp. Not just that day but every single waking day of my life. And would you believe it, I endured that for five solid years. Heheheh. I appreciate everything you said. And it did lighten my feeling up. Thanks for responding. Happy mylotting.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
I have been a customer service rep myself - i have been shouted at, and i have even shouted back. several complaints have been processed, several threats i have received as well - wuite a lot of them has told me they would get me off my job, but none has succeeded and i was even promoted to manager level in the same company. hahaha =P
Okay so i would agree that it so hurts to be shouted at, and to be treated as low as that because it is only our job to take the concerns and help them solve their problems.
In fairness to the customers, i would often get those that have been handled by others already and they are angry because they were not respected, assisted well by other reps who seemed to have treated their jobs as mere milking cow - they go to work but have no concern for the work itself... people would know if you are not even listening to them over the phone so i guess i would understand why others would lose their temper. all customers need is to just get things done and over with.
It would help if reps are more compassionate and patient, after all being in the job it would really help you become more humble, patient, understanding and you get to know which ones you are talking to are only bluffing you. hahah
In as much as I was hurt, or offended by customers who are treating reps so badly(yes we can see history of the customer's attitude and it is logged somewere there believe me!) I have never wished not to get their concern done. For me, giving them more pain by letting them call or follow up more because i intentionally did not process their request is not my payback kind of thing. Mine is i would help them resolve it as quickly as possible, and guess what.. if it gets resolved fast and the person shouted at me, mocked me, etc... and they knew it was me who finished the job for them... in my 5 years in the customer service... they all have returned a call and thanked me and said sorry for acting so immaturely the first time i got their call. so the experience and me helping them also humbled them. its my payback to them that they realize that their shouting won't help at all.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
3 Nov 11
Yes, even though customer service representatives always sound robotic like reading a script straight from their company's play book in my complaint, but i do think they are human being too. I sweared i had never shouted at them or ever impolite to them whenever my issue was handled by customer service rep. , i know they also have feeling like me and you, they are kind enough to listen to me and answer my call most of the time without putting me on hold for hours or ever drop me to the middle of no where. So i had never ever raise my voice on them, not even one during my entire life. It is no a nice thing for me to treat anyone rude, not just the customer service rep., even the salesmen or janitor, i always treated them with courtesy and respect, as far as i am concerned, these are hard working people that deserve to be treated like everyone, they are not part of the problem i had with the company that sell me a defective product, they are just trying to earn a living by holding a job with a company.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
You're one of the very few people we want to thank for. It's really nice to have people understanding where you are coming from. I hope my clients are like you.Thanks for responding and happy mylotting.
@Keola12 (823)
• United States
4 Nov 11
I agree with you. Customer Service Representatives are people with feelings. Whenever I'm talking with them regarding my concerns, I try to put myself in their place, because I do believe in treating people with common courtesy and respect, as I would like them to give me. I've worked as cashier in various restaurants, and I know from my own experience that it's not easy dealing with rude and difficult customers.
@hexebella (1136)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
it is the same thing in the hospitality industry which is worse, i have colleagues working in the F&B service who experienced being thrown with a beverage from a stupid customer....receptionist who experienced being shouted at by rude guests...it is part of the job that that you guys in this area needs to be tough, well in your case, you can retaliate silently by keeping their claims pending LOL!
@jeanneyvonne (5501)
• Philippines
8 Nov 11
Personally, I have nothing against CSRs - becuase I did a stint at that industry and didn't like it. But I have my best friend working there and I know a lot of people and their background stories on why they are working on that industry.
You put put a very good defense and very good justification. But you yourself admit that you are representative of the company and customers are gonna yell at you at more than once in your stint and in many reasons. You said it yourself that you, like many otehr CSRs are trained for it. And you are asked to mediate and to help - which is basically your job description.
I will admit that as a frustrated customer, I have a scripted or a running dialogue in my head before I actually call up. I admit that they are full of swear and curse words that if my mother hears, will make numerous attempt to wash my mouth with many kinds of soaps on many different times.
However, I have never been rude to any CSR's that I actually interact with. I don't why but somehow I am more calmer when I actually speak to someone. Besides, I usually use the e-mail service rather than actually calling up due to the long long long and very long wait for an actual CSR to pick up, It's better to have my head clear and still in a good mood before the actually waiting fuel my anger more.
Though your points are valid, you also discounted something. They are some rude (and not so intelligent) CSRS as they are rude (and not so intelligent)customers out there. I once have been at the receiving end of an insult and I am mature enough to dismiss it rather than having a more complicated situation at my hands.
I had a technical problem that my friend helped me out , instead of three CSRs while in the phone and maybe, 5 representatives on the email side. In situations like these, the company/you cost me time and money, instead of solution (that is promised).
Customers like me are often demanding - that's becuase sometimes the mistake of the company you represent is costing us our money, time and temper. And let's face it, instant call to you give the customers the illusion that you will and can act on the matter ASAP or some impossible timeline. If I know and have to wait for a 24-hour period, I know I'm nit expecting instant service and I am thinking that the company or service (not the call center nor its agents per se) isn't worth my money.
As much as I try to understand your side, I am a selfish person and a selfish customer at that. I see my needs first before I see yours. The only thing I want is solution and back to my normal routine. Anything else is no consequence to me (as a selfish customer).
So, I hope you had a peek at a customer's point of view. Being a consumer yourself, maybe you had been at the receiving end of a bad service. That's what we feels. Since we can't see you, it's easier to yell and say not-so-nice things when nobody's gonna censor us.
I* guess that only thing that matters is quality service (of the company you're representing). If this exists, there's no need to complain about anything, really.
@tech2d (338)
• United States
3 Nov 11
I can sympathize with you on this as I used to work as a Customer Service Rep. I have heard all the insults, screaming, cussing and even threats. We were told to NEVER tell anyone where we were located because we got so many threats. So I do understand, however, it is unfortunate that you have to follow a script. It does make you appear somewhat robotic and cold. I wish you luck in that occupation.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Luck is really what I need specially now that we're defenseless against these abusive people. Our company is starting customer service satisfaction survey and our bonuses depends on that. Thanks for answering and happy mylotting.
@mariahhh (1328)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Nov 11
Yes, I was once a customer service representative and I found lots of callers being rude, they will shout at me, and make me feel stupid. I hate being shouted at, that was why I changed my job.
There are some good customer service representative that are really helpful, and have friendly voice. I also encounter some rude representatives a couple of times when I tried to call a company. I guess some can't handle the pressure.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Actually, I'm planning to switch job by middle of next year. I just can't right now since Christmas is just around the corner. Oh well, I just need to endure this then. Thanks for responding and happy mylotting.
@rmendoza123 (637)
• Philippines
4 Nov 11
Well, I am sorry to tell you this girl. Most of the customer representatives are really stupid! Take for instance customer representative of GLOBE. They keep on closing my TICKET even if it is not done yet. I even advised them to call me, but they don't. Then tell me not to get mad to this?