my love is gone now

I have had two of these relationsships. Man always tired except if it had to do with his own job or interests. It's a lost case. Go for yourself, go find out what makes you happy, go build your own life and find your own place. Don't waste it on someone who is always tired. This lack of "energy" will only pull you downwards more and more.

I dont agree with you. Because true love cant be gone at any time. "Love is not a word to say love is not a game to play love is not a fibre to tight love is neither wrong nor right love is not deeds and it cant be done love stay forever and never be gone" so, may be your husband had lost her love for you. But you still love him. Thats the perfect definition of love and its the spirit. I cant bear the sadness of losting love. Thats why i never love someone rather than my family.

I think it is normal for people to sometimes feel empty and lonely. like there is something within our hearts that is not filled or can't be filled no matter how we try and no matter how perfect our life may seem. that i think is what we all are made of, there is that hole within us unless we fill it, or ourselves with love and yearning to God. People are spiritual beings as well, our happiness or feelings are not only due to physical or material things, a happy family, or a perfect children and husband. i think even if it seemed so perfect, we still would be needing that assurance that when we are alone in our home, etc God is there to fill that emptiness. You love for your husband may have been set aside, i think it cannot be completely gone by now. you see quite a lot of things, especially your husband's faults but then it helps or makes you try to not love him anymore. the question actually is that do you want to still fix your marriage, and try to work things out? if you answered yes to this, i'd say you ought to try to forgive him for his faults, and you should try to see his good side from now on. if you do you will most probably see changes in him as well. Whatever you decide on, I pray that God helps you and God be with you through out this as you face the trials brought upon your family.

That is the usual feeling evoked when you get separated from a partner and you still have feelings towards that person. It is a feeling of loss. The best way to get over it is to think that you have to move on. And that there's more significant activities that you need to consider and other people deserving your love and affection than that person. The reason why people feel tired and loses the love, the actual reason is the lost of touch or emotional attention that each requires from their partner. Usually, it is communication that would resolve this. But if the effort is one sided, then it will not work. But if both of you talk to each other and agree to try and work it out, then it may not be to late. I indeed had the same feelings. But when I learned that the other person is not happy with me anymore and that there's another person involved and may be hurt in the process if we went back together, I let go of him. I don't want to cause pain to other people. I have this tendency to move away and leave them so that they can be happy with each other. I cannot bear to think that I am the cause of other people's unhappiness. I am the type who can suffer on my own and not let other people know that I am suffering deeply. I learned from past experiences that this feeling heals if you learn to forgive yourself and move on with your life. I never lose hope that someday, I will have somebody who would truly value me the way that God's permit it to be. I hope you'll get over your difficulties. Use your talents and gift to pass time and focus more on productive activities. Have a nice day!!!

Yeah,I'm feeling low lately,too.My boyfriend just seems like unattached sometimes.I don't know what he's feeling right now.I may talk to him in a few days when I find the opportunity. Just talk to him.Sometimes maybe he is tired,but you need affection,too.Tell him you don't mean to be unreasonable or whatever.But all human beings need some kind of affection.Otherwise,what's the point of having a husband? Hopefully you will be like in old days again and feel the tenderness from him. Good luck and have a nice day~

Love needs to be expressed time and again by words, expressions and acts. You need to keep it alive by mere simple small steps.