I need so many things

I would not take a bed from a a charity afraid of bedbugs, I just hope we will finish paying for it before we move.

Actually, I wasn't talking about the bed. You said you needed so many things. I've found when it comes to my kids, all pride flies out the window. You do what you need to do for them.

I am a professional writer, I work for lots of places. It all depends on what you are paid for writing, mylot is not a writing site it doesn't count.

I don't like montreal freecycle at all.

yep that is the way it is,I got to get more writing gigs. I think I have a good job set up and I will be off mylot again soon

I have to find a higher paying job, so I can help out. The economy is tuff right now. You will get more writing gigs. Your really good. I still miss your writings on mylot. You will be missed on here, but I will know why.

we want a futon

everything I have was given to me by my mother and her friends. the futon will be the first new bed my son has had since he was a child and he is 35 years old now.

That sounds like us. Can't remember the last really new thing we have gotten. The thrift store here gives people things if they need it so we have gotten some things through them.

don;t want anything that could possibly have bedbugs, it would be the canadian red cross here but they dont do that. I just need to be able to pay for the futon before we move. If it is paid for by the time we move it won't be a problem

thanks hon

excuse me but where did I say I wanted help. I said this was my decision this is what I am doing. You don't have to like my answers but this is what I am going to do. Excuse, this is offensive. Montreal is polluted with roaches and bedbugs and sorry if you would take the chance that is your business but I won't and I don't have to. Yes I need things just sharing my life with myloters, but I will get them in my own time in my own way.

you will find that many people don't even bother to answer the comments, answering comments on mylot is a form of thanks few people do it. I am one that does. You are new to mylot, many people make discussions on what is going on in their lives in the moment. I don't like to spell out things like please don't give me advise this is my decision or I don;t need help I have done that in the past and still people continue to give advise. So I find it useless. People read whatever they want to read into anything that is written and there is no way to please everyone. Thank your for responding in a positive manner.

Your topic line, at least to me, implied that you were in need. I don't know how others perceived it, but must have seen it the same way I did because I wasn't the only one that offered advice on your post. Oh, I wouldn't take the chance on bedbugs myself. And I stated in the above post that I wasn't referring to the bed. You said, I need so many things. I took that to mean that you were in dire straights and needed everything to furnish your home. No offense was intended. Guess I commented on my own past experiences with people that speak kind of like you. You said you were a writer, so I assumed by your writing that a reader would be able to see into what the content was really saying. Again, my mistake and I apologize. This however, does not have anything to do with your lack of gratitude to the people that read the same way I did and offered some useful advice. Personally, I wouldn't have mentioned anything negative, ie. I don't like Montreal Freecycle. I'd have just thanked them for being thoughtful enough to take the time to offer what assistance they could. To each his own, I guess. I wish you the best of luck in furnishing your home comfortably. Have a very nice day. :)