Why are families breaking ?

Hi Rolly! It is correct that many relationships and marriages are breaking up. It is due to the lack of mutual understanding and unrealistic expectations from each other. Today's generation have less patience and higher ego levels. Parents also do not impart training to their wards about importance of adjustment in married life. Partners forget that no one is perfect and they need to take positive and negative traits of their respective partners in their strides. Good Post.

I think people became less patient. To make your relationship you need patience and hard work.Also I think some people never should make decision about getting married or have children because mentally they are children themselves. Some people are too busy with their carrier to notice other person in their relationship. The reasons why families are breaking can be endless.

Divorce happened was very unfortunate. Victims of divorce, is a child. Many children, who should be sad, because parents' divorce. There are many things, which makes divorce happen. Which can be seen clearly, divorce occurs because of selfishness.

Sad to say that we do not have divorce in the Philippines and annulment cost too much money. I suffered from a marriage break-up as my ex husband is not capable to carry out his responsibilities as a husband. He was working abroad those days, luckily we do not have kids, his family doesn't want to accept me and he listened to his brothers and sisters to leave me. So he abandoned me and I was the one to pay for the costly annulment in the Philippines as I don't see any reason to stay married with him. As long as there are men like him, there will be family and marriage break ups.

Hi! I am very busy and uncomfortable to do net working. I am very sorry to not answer your question. So,the topic is " Why Families are breaking." The main Cause is that the Money , Divorce, Adjustment, in-tolerances,Misunderstanding,etc........, Money is the main for the Families break-ups. Money is the one who makes the person greedy, ambitious,powerful,etc,. A person is gone out in search of good job, in search of better place to stay,in search of place where their children would stay in peace. We cannot blame only money has spoil our life but our emotion , behavior towards the person also cause the main damage on the breaking of families. In a Joint family,we see that lot of Quarrels, misunderstanding, in-tolerance happening. And the second point , Sharing of property, It has a key role in breaking the family.

Our expectation are so much higher beyond expectation. When you marry someone and find that what you expected is no longer the same, you just not ready to try out something less than that leading to separation. The children on the other hand, are left to suffer without a father or a mother.

Hi rollylolly, While it's true that divorce rates continue to climb, this is by no means something new, especially in the US and Canada. I agree that it is difficult for children when parents divorce, but I'm not sure it's any worse than living in a relationship where there is no love and a lot of tension, arguing and even fighting. A happy and harmonious relationship that lasts a lifetime is certainly a rarity. What can be done? Certainly couples planning to marry need to get to know each other better, that is they should be dating for a longer period of time. They must also accept the fact that there are going to be a lot of things that they won't see eye to eye on, and learn how to talk about such things in a calm and rational manner. If they plan on having children they should agree never to argue in their presence. Many young people today choose to live together before marriage, but that doesn't always help either. Whether a couple chooses to marry or live common law, the rules remain the same. Blessings.

There are lot of separated couples today. And it is because of misunderstanding or early marriage they do then after they realized of no love between them, they plan to separate. If they are not getting well with each other.. for sure misunderstanding then go to break up. Now their children are suffered for being broken family.

It is like everyone wants their freedom and the age when people would sit down and talk things over are long gone. Many marriages are not marriages in principle but co-habitations. Intolerance and unfaithfulness are the rules of the game these days and trust seems a faded hope of light in the middle of an ocean.

That depends on each situation. Reasons varies from differences and different aspects. I don't want to site any particular reason,but one thing is for sure... once love and respect is gone,there is no need to stay in a relationship. and it is useless to live under one roof without love and respect.

You are right now most of marriages are breaks even after 10 years or 20 years no matter but I think on this incident research should start. I feel more reasons for breaking up like husband or wife attract on third person, misunderstanding between both, behaviors of both, age problems, earning problem (some women are more expensive and husband income is less) etc. Both should try to protect their marriage.

Many families break because of the following reasons. -The parents commit adult ery. -The children are influenced by bad friends,and it had a big impact to the family. -They parents are so close minded that they don't listen to the explanations of their children when they children err.This causes revolution. -All members of the family are so busy by doing worldly things so they forget to have time with the members of the family There are more reasons that I didnt mention.The family is like an expensive jar.It's looks so wonderful and beautiful but can be easily shattered.

its because expectations are going high and love in its real sense is getting extinct from the world. people are becoming more and more egoistic and they think that self importance is the major factor governing the life.now love is give and take policy and its not unconditional any more.and that is why we are facing so many disaster.our young generation is loosing hope in marriages.

for me, the root of it could also be discontentment..most people nowadays has their qualifications for their partners..and most think much of themselves..they can't accept their partner; they want that their partner must do whatever they want them to do; they don't want to adjust for their partners; they don't give time to have a healthy conversation and arguments..and they always believe that divorce is always the solution of everything.. because of that, their kids will think that it's natural for it to happen..so in the future, there is a greater possibility for their kids to follow them, or may be worse than them.. i always believe that everyone is unique..so we have different qualities..but we have to adjust to people around us and not the other way around..in a relationship, we must know how to give and take..there should always be respect..and of course faithfulness and endless communication.. some broken families may also be a product of early marriages..there are lots of cases nowadays who are in early pregnancies and early marriages..even though they still don't know their partner's personality that well..so regrets may develop every arguments or problems they'll encounter..and with that regrets, discontentment blooms and everything else carefully follows..

I feel the reason for divorce nowdays is due to lack of understanding between the couples and the tendency of 'take it for granted' towards the partner. Giving space in an relationship is always necessary. Forcing, demanding, commanding all are leading to break-ups