I miss having a boyfriend

I understand the feeling of wanting to be in love. It truly is one of the nicest feelings a person can feel. However, hoping to find a boyfriend right now is a no-no. You need to get over your ex-boyfriend first. In case you do find a new boyfriend, it would be unfair on his part because it would be like you loving him on the rebound.

One thing that you have got to remember is that when it is your time to be with someone it will come. Now if you are still in love with your ex boyfriend then what you need to do is get over him so that you can move on to the next lover. You never know the next lover might be better than the one you were with. As well even though it is nice to be involved it is okay to be alone for a while. Some times it is better to be alone for a while if you are not over the previous relationship.

HI tess quinain: I'm sorry that you are feeling this way for this moment. I think maybe you need to give yourself some time just for yourself to think about how valuable you are as a person. It's lovely to be in love but you don't depend on the choices of someone. You will survive and probably you will find the right person for you. So don't give up and try to relax. ALVARO

I can understand how you feel....I do miss having that special someone in my life to do things with. However, you must push on. Like I was told, you may meet that special someone when you least expect it. I wish you much luck!

How about getting fixated on yourself? You see those girls with their lovers.. do you also see all those people who have nobody at all? Young people, old people? Since you are still full of feelings for your ex (hate is a very strong feeling) you are not ready for a new love. Go have fun instead of waiting for a new lover to take away your loneliness. There are enough other people with whom you can have fun as well, going to the mall, etc.

I'm so sorry. I;m a 19 y/o guy who's never dated and I know how it feels to see guys and gals who are all lovey-dovey . . . It just breaks your heart. I hope you find someone special and who'll love you the way you want him to. All the best.

A natural thing, if you want to have a boyfriend. Boyfriend does not need to look for, and you do not need to search. You just have to be patient, and not necessarily rush. If it's time you got a boyfriend, you will definitely get a boyfriend. Hopefully, you'll get a good boyfriend.

in my case I love being single. Their types I was so tight up like even my neck is struggling. So its really about situation my friend. Just enjoy being single. Admire Venus Raj, I'm just here waiting for the right person.

Yeah,i feel the same with you and it's really nice being in love.Sometimes it's lonely when we just going to malls or go shopping lonely,but anyway,i hope my mr.right will come soon and i hope he loves me more than i love him.It's been really nice being in love.Good luck.lol

I know where you are coming from. I feel the same too I have not been in love for so many years now and I miss being in love and falling for one so hard that nothing else matters :) I do actually have someone in mind but I think that is kinda like an impossible love right now :( Why is life always so unfair huhuhuhu

hi. actually i cant understand ur feelings because i dnt have girlfrnd ever in my life. actuaaly sound weird but its true. i was also hoping my dream girl to come to fill my life with happiness. anyone here wanna be my gf, haahaha. cheers.

maybe, your ex also waiting your messages. hehehe. just trying send mih a message, maybe he will replay. women need to be love in this world. just wait, one dat, You Mr.Right will come to you for loving U. cheees..

There is also time that i also feel that i miss having a boyfriend. That is the time that i have no boyfriend and my ex boyfriend don't call or text me anymore. I miss the times the when someone ask me if i already eat, what is the food that i eat, and who are the people i'm with every time that we are not with each other. I also miss the time that there is someone calling me just to wake me up and remind me to be not be late in school.

i just couldn't understand how can be lover become a friend again ? you meet someone you like someone and then close friendship after that breakup and remain as friend, anyways you need one to show people around you that you have someone u are not alone ? why you hate your ex bf ? remember all good time to be with him,how could hate someone to whom you love ? who fill your heart full of love if u really in love with him how could you hate him ? you need your bf for going to malls and you jealous also with other girls who having bf . grow up kid, i hope you can find your kinda bf

Oh, i know how you feel. i have felt that myself too.. when i broke up with someone and then he seemed to have moved on... (well he just stopped for a while to help me cool down because he knew i was so mad at him). it is hard to see couples out there so happy and in love with each other... and you are walking in the public places alone... thinking of the person and what went wrong with the both of you... right? you know what.. the feeling will pass. it is going to go away eventually. fill your heart with love for God. pray and pray evrytime you feel like you are empty, pray when you feel sad... pray when you want something and you do not know what it is... You will find that the emptiness will be slowly filled with God's love and when you are ready to love again, God will make you meet the person you are destined to be with! =)

iam sorry for hearing your sad moments here..i know your feeling.. why you don`t getting some friend or looking one great boy become your next boy friend?? or you must do something for helping your loneliness

Tess, I'm afraid I have to agree with the others. It's a wonderful feeling to be in love, but it's very easy to be in love with love instead of with a person. I still remember when my first boyfriend and I broke up. I think we had always expected to get married, since we had been dating for over three years. Gradually, though, we realized it might be wiser to date others before we settled down. I think each of us had someone else we kind of wanted to date, and after we broke up, each of us dated that other someone. In neither case did those become serious relationships. About six months after we broke up, I was living in a coed dorm at UCLA. I was still on the rebound, hoping for that special someone to appear. And then I met him. it was like love at first sight for me. It was magical. Everything was so romantic, and even nature conspired to make it seem so. We saw each other every night for about two weeks, went for long romantic walks, took the bus to the beach, etc. And then one day it was over. No warning. He didn't call, and I saw him with another girl. When I asked what had happened, he said he was afraid he was getting too serious too fast. For two weeks I was devastated. The rejection really hurt. But the relationship had not gone deep. We hardly knew each other. I think we were both on the rebound and wanted to be in love, but we were more in love with love than with each other. In retrospect, what I thought was love was just infatuation. Two weeks after our break, I met the man who was to become my husband. It was not love at first sight for either of us. We just became friends who spent a lot of time studying together and talking and getting to know each other. A year later we were engaged. What's funny is that just as my Hubby (now) wanted us to stop seeing each other because he wasn't sure we were meant for each other, that guy I thought I was in love with (all three of us lived in the same dorm), started pursuing me again and wanted to go for a walk. I went, because technically I was a free woman. But I told him we would just be friends. I think he only was pursuing me to make my (now) husband jealous. Then, the very day I knew in my heart I was going to marry my husband, something else happened. My (now) husband liked to go to bed early, and I was a night owl. After he had gone to bed that Friday night, I got a phone call from the guy I had dated after breaking up with my first boyfriend. He said he was down in the lounge and wanted to go out. Talk about surprises! He hadn't called in months. I normally saw him at church when I was home. It was a very interesting night because I told him I was going to get married when I had no reason to think so but a quiet confidence in my heart it would happen. But that is a story to tell another time. Hearts which like to be in love are easily deceived. Your heart will heal, but you are still grieving the loss of your boyfriend. Anger is one of the steps of grief you have to go through before you get to acceptance. My advice is to rebuild relationships with your girl friends, concentrate on your studies, and in the right time, the right man will appear. You don't want to fall in love with love and wind up married to the wrong man.

You don't have to feel very lonely. I believe there is a man out there for you. Soon you will find him.

^^ find a good guy that you enjoy spending time with. It's natural to miss that feeling, but since mr. right is not with you yet, enjoy your time with family and friends.