What if one day your boyfriend or girlfriend ask this?

I will just say good bye to him and i will tell him that "make sure that she will you more than i love you before" because i don't wanna stay in a relationship that i know my partner don't love me anymore because it will hurt me more when he will stay with me but i'm not the one that he love but by now i feel so lucky with my husband because even he is not super good looking guy and he is not a super rich man but he is the one that admired the most because of his talent and his patience. Even sometimes were having some argument we still end in being together again.

The question is, why is your bf say such thing? Is he tired of the relationship? Is there a third party involved? What made him decide for your bf to end your relationship? IS there a problem that needs to be address as individuals? You need to communicate and ask these toughest questions from your bf so you can find closure and acceptance. There must be a valid reason why he suddenly say such words. You have to be strong also in accepting his reasons. It might not be reasonable but once the guy decided to leave you, you should have the dignity of letting him go.

I don't know how to react unless I am in that situation. I am sure it will break my heart, but, since he already made up his mind, not even kneeling down and begging him to stay will work. I will cry my heart out loud and scream at the top of my lungs. Drained out every emotions and feeling inside and compose myself. I will kiss love goodbye and smile! (looks crazy) It's reality,accept and free yourself. There is no use crying your whole life for a lost love. There is always life after ending a relationship.

In situations like these,you have to set them free.I think there's no use if you have to hold him/her back ,when he/she loves someone else.You will only suffer in a relationship when it's one sided,and eventually fall out of love.It can also prevents you from finding the right person, and be happy with someone who really cares for you.

You say: what if he asks you.. is he asking it or is he telling you... this sounds more like telling you he is leaving and you have to make a plan how to go on. If he is just asking it there is no answer what to do if that happens because this all depends on the time he is telling you, how you feel, how much you love him, how many friends/family you have to turn to and how much time you spend with him. If you just saw him once in a while it will be different as when you are 24/24 togther. Still I would appreciate it if my bf would tell me. Most men don't. You have to find out yourself and if you tell them you know they will find all kind of excuses how or what so in the end you are the bad person. You can't force love, it comes and can go as well. Be happy you at least know he is a honest person and I do believe it will be hard too to tell you how he feels knowing you will be so sad.

Hi angelgie05! Honestly, if my boyfriend ask me that question, I will not be able to answer. I will just look at him and wait for him to say more. Whatever he says he says. I can't go on pleading for him to stay because I know it will be pointless since he already said he loves another girl. But then again, time will tell. Only real experience will determine the answer to this question :)