I am happy to say that my mother-in-law has really changed for the better!

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I know that some of you all are very familiar or quite familiar with my relationship between my mother-in-law and I. In the past, she was very rude and hateful to me. Now, me and her have become much closer. It is very strange... She was so happy to see me and her grandchildren when we all came by to visit. My mother-in-law calls me her daughter and not her daughter-in-law. I am very openly honest with her. I am not afraid to express how I feel whenever she may step beyond her boundaries with me. She appears to adore me and to appreciate anything that I may do for her, regardless of her past actions towards me in the past. I pray that our relationship stays this way, because her son and I have a very close and intimate relationship together, as husband and wife. Our relationship has become so much stronger during the past few months this year. We have a very deep understanding for each other that is just amazingly sweet! My husband and I have been through some bad storms together. Our trials and tribulations, involved more financially and economically. Right now, we do have a new vehicle that we have had for at least, two months now. My husband is in the process of helping me to practice for my driver's license. I already know how to drive really well, I just need the correct validation that will make it official for me to be able to drive independently, that is. Now, going back to my mother-in-law, she is really trying to be a better person to me and to her grandchildren, that I have to give her credit for this! She even respects my relationship with her son, she does not believe in sticking her nose in our relationship, nor for any relationship that her other children may have with their lover's. We talk about so many things together while I stayed a couple of weeks with her. Yes, she has made some bad mistakes, but we have worked them out together. That is the best part about being her daughter-in-law is that we have a solid relationship that is stronger enough to conquer any misunderstandings with each other. I will give you an example of how our relationship has progressed. I came back to her home one evening in a very bad mood. She nicely told me that she had a new cell phone number and that she wanted to give me her new number. In return, I responded very rudely back to her with a nasty attitude. I was actually mad at the moment about something that was between her son, my husband, and I. I took my anger out on her for nothing. Well, after I calmed down, I went to her and gave her a hug and told her that whatever was bothering me, it wasn't her at all. I also apologized to her. She immediately understood. Yet, a couple of days later, I explained to herself the basics of how I respect our relationship. I just could not live with myself, just taking out my anger on her and I know that she was not the cause of it at all. I believe that we all can be this way, with anyone in life. No one is perfect, but God, and if you have the chance to make it right with someone, please do it, because it will make you feel so good inside of your heart! Be Blessed, My Friends!