My freind is going...

share your feelings with your friend sj as he should know how much you are affected by his decision.he should know how do you feel about the current situation and how much you feel good and bad about the same. its true that you won't be able to see your friend that frequently but you can not ask him to stay by your side for ever.we all try to climb high on stairs and he has just laid his first step.you should support him in his decision to move forward. i know how are you feeling right now but this is the time you act wisely and help your friend round up things for him and join the new job peacefully.

Ohhhhhhh friend really this is sad news because I know when our friend is living with us for more days and suddenly he/she decided to go then how can feel. But you not feel sad because you have mylot and all mylotters are your good friend. I know one new friend will came and join you and your room.

Hi Sjvg, it is usual that not everyone of us able to stay in the same place forever. As for me, i recently shifted to another new place and it is time for me to start explore the whole new place like before again. That's why, i haven't got much time to online recently. I am sure over time, you will be able to get over your sadness. I ever had a few friends who left my hometown due to getting a much better offer jobs. Although i do missed their time spending with me but i have to accept it for the goodness of their future. Now, i am still in contact with them through online although we are living very far apart in this world.

Its a dilemma and you have the both reasons to be upset and joyous. As now a days, a job is something like comet and hard to find out and thats why you should be happy rather than being sad... and you have all the changes to talk to him as we are technically developed than advent. have a nice time.

If your friend has a new and better job you should feel glad for him;of course it's normal to feel also sad,but if you have a solid friendship with him you will keep on communicating and the moments you will see each other again will be even more special.Anyway,no matter how big the physical distance between two people might be,a true friendship lasts forever,so be happy for your friend and wish him good luck in his new life.

Its remembers me when we made a party in house to say goodbay to me and my son because we wer coming to USA we leaved in Dominican Republic so it was a great party we nice time together at the end of the party all of us cried together,but I don't feel as far away because I can see them on the cam and talk with then everyday I even help my niece with her homework, whenever she needs me. Don't worry you and can still share activities together and keep in touch.

Mixed emotions is normal, you can be happy for them but sad because of the distance but with the computer these days you can keep in touch and then when you really do get together again you will appreciate your friendship so much more.

There is no permanency in this world. He has landed in a new and promising career which makes moving out unavoidable. You should share his joy and wish him all the best in his new career and his new place. He maybe a distance away but nowadays everything is made so convenient with a touch of the button. Everyone is only a screen away from each other and this makes friendship last forever.

How far your friend will be? I guess, considering that both of you are good friends, then it will be a bit hard to let him go. But honestly, with Facebook/Twitter/Youtube standing by you won't need to worry. Be happy and give your full support for him. With digital and latest technology, distance will soon be nothing at all. You may visit each other sometimes, of course.

Hi sjvg First... Ask for a Party and ensure you have it Then forget the thing that he is leaving you as you need to enjoy the party... and then when he is gone... cry for a day or two maximum. Call him up after this, tell him that you miss him and hang up. Repeat this a few days and then tell us how do you feel (here) after all this. Dear, you cannot say or ask him to stay back... a harsh fact - he will go even if you say/ask him to stay...and you too would have done similar... This is life...

Hi sjvg, you should be happy for your friend that he has got a good job even if it's far away from you. You can still keep in touch with your friend online. That is the good thing about internet.

It's always sad to see a friend move away, but it's easier if you know it's a good move for him. Be thankful that modern technology makes it easy to keep in touch without much expense. Skype is free to use on line for conversations. There are far away friends I hardly ever see except on line here and there, but when we do get together, it's as though we have not been apart. We talk as though we just saw each other yesterday.

Yes you should feel happy and join his joy that he found a good job. I wonder why it is so hard for you to do that since it's your friend. with internet, phone it can't be that hard to stay in touch so this is really a very bad excuse for not being happy for him.

It would be really selfish for you to want your friend to stay for your sake. If he is really a close friend you would want the best for him and just think how fantastic the reunion will be when you see him in the future. You will probably have a party. Always look on the bright side of life.

okay try again lost the whole thing find out his address to be, email him, phone him on your cellphone, send messages on the net there are a lot of ways you two could keep in touch even the slow snail mail. You can still be friends long distance and thats really good for keeping a friendship going. and perhaps you can even visit one other occasionally on his days off.You will miss him but by keeping in touch you will be happier and will not lose your friendship that way.

I would say feel happy for him that he is moving on with his life but feel sad that you will not get to see him as often. It is ok to feel them both. It would not be a friendship if you do not fell both of these things. Maybe you guys can plan longer visits then? Maybe he will have some great experiences to share. It is always hard to say see you later when that later seems so far away.

You should be happy, your friend gets a new job, which may be better than his current job. As a good friend, you must pray the best for your friend. Although rarely met, you can still communicate with each other, and can still be friends with each other.

I understand your feeling since he's your bestfriend. You should be happy with him coz he got his new job. Now a days,since we have an advance technology, communication is not difficult anymore. You could chat and see each other in cam or call or text each other using cellphone. Dont be sad.

I don't think there is much you can do here my friend. I had a best friend who left the country some years ago and I miss him so much. He is currently in Hong Kong and I dunno when I will see him again but what we do is chat often and sometimes on skype. I miss him dearly but there is really nothing I can do. I am saving up so I can go visit him but I dunno when that will be possible.

Just be happy for your friend, now that she got a new job. This feeling is normal since you used to each other almost everyday. I think your is feeling it too, but face the reality everyone needs to far apart sometimes in order for us to become tough and become a better person.