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Picky Eating.
By hvedra
@hvedra (1619)
November 8, 2011 7:27am CST
We are planning a meal out over the festive period and everyone is having the restaurant's standard Christmas Fayre menu - there are four choices for each course turkey, beef, fish or vegetarian option.
However one person's teenaged daughter has refused everything on the menu and wants something off the main restaurant menu and has insisted on having lasagne. Now, that would be fair enough but amongst the reasons she has given for refusing the set menu is "I don't like turkey and doesn't eat beef". I pointed out to her mother she was having beef because it is a beef lasagne.
Her mother then explained that when they do bolognese at home the daughter won't eat that either and has to have something different.
Er, but bolognese is the basis of the lasagne...
Oh and she will eat burgers but only if they get them from one particular fast food chain.
She will also eat "turkey twizzlers" but not turkey.
So, she's just being a picky madam and getting attention by insisting on different foods to the rest of us. It will also cost her parents twice as much as everyone else's meal is costing.
I can take it when someone has a special dietary requirement or genuinely doesn't like something but this is just being awkward and her parents know it but won't put a stop to it.
Do you know anybody who bends over backwards for somebody who is a picky eater just to get attention and make a fuss?
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4 responses
@celticeagle (168331)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Nov 11
I don't know anyone that is a picky eater. I come from a long line of 'eat what is set infront of you and be glad you have it' types. I think this family has let this girl be picky and now they have to pay the penalty for it. I would make a deal with her. If she will do extra chores and save her folks some time up until the dinner then she can have what she wants to eat. If not she will have to chose from the correct menu and like it.
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@celticeagle (168331)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Nov 11
It sure is pathetic. I used to live through some of that myself. My daughter wouldn't be the authoritarian to my grandson and he would throw a fit knowing if he through it long enough and loud enough his mom would let him do or have whatever. Through counseling and PSR work he has come around and so has she but it has been a long haul. I keep telling her that someday her son is going to be a foot or more taller than she is and looming over her saying, "You want me to do what?" If she doesn't do something now......??!!
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@hvedra (1619)
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22 Nov 11
Extra chores? I think the problem here is that she doesn't do any and they pander to her. They let her be a right little drama queen and put everyone else to inconvenience. She won't even try most foods but it isn't about the food, it's about control. I think this little episode is all about control too - making them spend more on her and her being "different".
If they want a fourteen year old dictating the rules that's up to them but I find it quite pathetic.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Nov 11
She sounds like a spoiled brat to me. I would probably tell her she could just saty home if u couldn't eat what everyone else was eating.
@tessah (6617)
• United States
8 Nov 11
i will semi cater to my children with meals. mainly i just make alternatives that everyone enjoys, not make a different dish for all. im not running a restaurant afterall. kids are far too indulged in my opinion, and if i were this childs mother, shed have to choose what was the selected menu (it isnt as if its only ONE thing that she hates.. there are various choices) and if she refused.. she could sit there quietly and behave.. and go hungry
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@Rockburgh (31)
• United States
9 Nov 11
I know someone who's quite possibly the pickiest eater in the state. (New Jersey.) Until recently, he refused to eat anything other than bread, cheese (mozzarella only), and pizza. (White only.) He's started to branch out lately, though. Now he's willing to eat mashed potatoes and chicken fingers. The guy's somewhere in the vicinity of sixteen years old.
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