When is/willbe your next date ?
By mayur71091
@mayur71091 (425)
India
November 8, 2011 2:17pm CST
Do you have any close friend to whom you are thinking of to arrange a date through next month or later, i never have any date though i am 20 i love to be single. Freak! no i just love, i am a boy and i think having girlfriend will take off much of my time and i would not be then able to use computer most of hours a day. The other thing is that whenever i wish that i could have a girlfriend i use to keep depressed so i changed my attitude. Now i am happy, may be i will marry within next 4 years don't know!!
How is your experience in you love life, it might be so beautiful i guess.
5 responses
@ckayth (103)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
dating is not really my thing. haven't dated someone for like,what? 4yrs? but honestly there's the nerve coming out, spurting in me shouting for a Prince-like man and date him now,tomorrow and the day after tomorrow. yeha! but just like hurricane. in one quick twist these hopes vanish quicker than bubble does. trust me.i'm not picky nor choosy. well.it's just the same. ok fine. i'm picky! i'm looking for the SPARK thing you know.maybe that made my love life really boring!
@ehleonkyrietales (452)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
First of - I would really disagree that you are picky. (I hope you know what I mean by that) And the the Prince-like man for you to date isn't really out of your reach, it will always be YOU who will find it, well you can't really expect things in life coming like a fairytale right? So then, if I may comment about the spark, oh well, everyone wants that... that... something... that something you feel, the chilling sensation under your ankles thing when you are with this someone, that's the spark, or maybe the shock and the slow motion moment when you walk together - or maybe, just maybe, when you look in his eyes and you get drowned by the undeniable charming aura - Oh well, its hard finding this kind of thing these day. *Wink.
@ckayth (103)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
maybe it's a wrong term for using the "picky" thing but for the fact that i'm meeting lots of potential wanna-be boyfriends around and i always end up backing off i prefer to use i am "picky". euphemism is always the best mask. *wink it's really childish believing in such false bed time stories but it makes me really happy hearing happily-ever-after endings.i wanna make myself believe that somewhere out there,in this very chaotic world,there can be two people who can fight for love against all odds.maybe because my parents has a marital problem, it's never happy in our house :(
@LaraTecson (726)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
You are saying you are happy being single because you haven't find the one you would offer your heart for. 
Anyway, my girlfriend and I would have our date tomorrow. After a month of not seeing one another we have at last cleared our schedules. She would come by here in our house and we would just hang out here. When I'm with my girlfriend, no matter where you put us, as long as she is by my side, I'm going to enjoy it. 
Anyway, my girlfriend and I would have our date tomorrow. After a month of not seeing one another we have at last cleared our schedules. She would come by here in our house and we would just hang out here. When I'm with my girlfriend, no matter where you put us, as long as she is by my side, I'm going to enjoy it. 
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
8 Nov 11
Quite in contrary to your last statement. My love life just miserable you can't imagine of it. I was been in love twice of my lifetime, and each one of them just as miserable as you can see on the DVD movies. I may lost my confident to find a soul mate of my life, maybe I one of 1 million whose fate to be like this. I was quite disappointed with myself.
@lilblondiemjd (857)
• United States
8 Nov 11
I'm not sure when my next date will be. I had tons of dates 2 weeks ago, so I'm set for awhile! My boyfriend is running low on cash since he's saving to move out at the moment, so we've been kind of restricted on how much we can go out. We'll probably end up going to the movies or out to eat soon though. I love getting out of the house. Dates are so much better when you know the person, it's way more comfortable...So I'm looking forward to them.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
8 Nov 11
I don't make dates or date. It's not that I don't have social contacts at all but I don't see the need of it. Also I can't stand a full scedule for months ahead.
I like to be free. So the only thing I will agree with (or not) is that I will meet someone within X-time or not at all.
If you are depressed that is not really a great base to meet people. Everybody will feel the negative energy around you. So start making yourself happy first, enjoying life first, go out (you can do that alone as well) speak to different people, or should I say as much as possible? And you might be surprised about all the kind/positive reactions you get.
I think 20 is very young so is marrying within 4 years. Better start living first!
Love is not only beautiful there is a lot of sorrow, problems, sadness, etc if it comes to love. It's only perfect for those who are living in a dream.
