Referrals? Not for me

@allknowing (137553)
India
November 8, 2011 10:35pm CST
My referrals are here just watching what I do. I have no interest in such referrals and I don't intend having any more. I notice they do visit myLot but do not participate. Have you had this odd experience?
3 people like this
24 responses
9 Nov 11
i am new here therefore i have no referral i am some confused that how to make money this site i hope i will learn very soon
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
10 Nov 11
@shanjaanshan, you will earn by participating. As a new person, read discussions and respond to them. Request people who have topics you like to be your friends. Make new friends. Your earning is for your participation. @ allknowing, I believe many of our referrals think it is going to be easy to participate. In some ways the site is easy, but in others it gets more challenging. Since it was my first participation site to join, it was pretty easy because I had no other experience to compare it to. I do not chat and text and this just came easily to me. My husband is just now getting comfortable enough to start a discussion now and then. He is trying to be more active. I think others have signed up with me thinking they were doing me a favor.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
If you are here to make money, the kind of money that will sustain you then this is not the place for you. Most of us are here to interact with the world at large and for me it is much more than money.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
It is easy to participate GG but not easy to earn - getting to 10 dollars without tasks is a tough job indeed. It can take months to earn that. If not for my tasks which helped me earn over 500 dollars till date I would never have reached my 10 dollars each month.
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 11
I have a few, but they're all sleeping. At least yours is better than mine, they do visit.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
I was more interested in having fun interacting with them. I know they have given up as 2 years is a pretty long time Jlyn!
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
What is the benefit. It is worse watching me and I dont even know that they do!
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@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 11
Well, if they do come and watch, there is a chance of them being active here. It might get them excited to participate one day. Just keep your fingers crossed. You'll get 25% of what they earn.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
9 Nov 11
Last I checked, other than the one who recently deleted their account, my referrals don't even sign in anymore, and when they did, they were not that active..I have too many to check every one, but I am 99.9% sure no one signs in anymore..
• United States
9 Nov 11
I know what you mean. I found mylot not through another member, but a site, so I signed up. But if I did sign up under someone, they would LOVE me as their referral, because I do pretty well here..
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
I too do not have an upline and had registered directly. You are right. The upline would have benefited greatly because of you and me if we had gone through uplines
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
What is baffling is whereas I got glued to myLot why my friends did not. I have no intention to ask them but I notice that seems to be the case with other users here. Their referrals have also vanished into thin air!
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Nov 11
Hi dear, Last week I got two referrals in mylot and I don't know who they are and how they joined under me. I have not referred to anybody but I got a notification from mylot, I referred these people. Now one of my referral automatically get into my list of friends, I didn't know how, the second one is not in my list and I don't know where can I see my referral. I will tell you after a period of time whether they help me or not. This is the first time I got referrals without my knowledge. In the beginning two people joined under me where I have given my referral link but they never visit mylot again after joining.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Nov 11
After posting this response I checked my referrals in earnings tab where I seen that one of my new referral's profile does not exist.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Nov 11
I don't have any blog and I have not recommend mylot to anybody recently.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
You must be having a blog or some other site where you may have your referral link for public viewing.Good for you. Wait and watch Sreekala. You may have pleasant surprises in store in the near future.
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@humaira12 (149)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 11
hi there!, i don't have even referrals in here..its bad from u?
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
Referrals are those that become members here by using your referral link It seems you have not sent your referral link to anyone so far. Referrals who participate regularly play a small role in increasing your income. Also if they are your friends in real life it is a nice feeling having them here and interacting with them.
• Indonesia
9 Nov 11
i've put my mylot link in my FB account, but it seems no one interested? what is there another way??
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
You can look at your own mind set to see what attracted you here and pass on that thought to your prospective referrals.
@turbopt (74)
• Portugal
9 Nov 11
if you dont want referrals send my link, i dont have anyone Just kidding, i notice the same in other sites to earn money that i have refs, dont understand why they registe and never do something to earn money
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
Most of us have this experience of referrals enthusiastically singing up and then vanishing without a trace. The fact that there are thousands here who interact on a daily basis almost since the time of its inception says a lot about myLot.
• Mumbai, India
9 Nov 11
Welcome to mylot
• Portugal
9 Nov 11
Thanks for that, but just talk about what i sayed ahah
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
I don't have any referrals and I never made any effort to find some. There was one friend whom I asked to join mylot, but I did not give her my referral link. She just went on and registered herself. However, she is inactive now, and have been so for years.
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Many people join MyLot every day, I guess, but not many stay. Some come here with the intention to earn big bucks then get disappointed. Some come here but don't find enjoyment in participating. And then there's us.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
To each their own. The sad part however is when one takes the trouble to get referrals to sign up and then they vanish it does leave behind a bad feeling.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
I have a few referrals which I got merely by a request. But sadly they do not participate. I have no intention to remind them. It seems they are not interested. No one induced me to participate here and I do it on my own steam so to say.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 Nov 11
I have one referral who is totally inacive here. Have not seen her for years now. I cannot understand why your referrals just keep watching you ; do they have nothing else to do? Strange! but how did you know that?
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 Nov 11
oH! perhaps you saw their profile and realised they had logged in.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
You already have the answer kala. Most of my referrals are my friends and interacting with them would have given me a different kind of experience had they participated.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
10 Nov 11
Hi,i also have several referrals in mylot. But almost none of them are active now. It seems that most of them only visited mylot for one or two times, and only one have start discussions for several times, and others didn't post anything at all. Well,i don't know whether or not they are watching me now. Because i have not known the way to do that. But i think it is better they don't do that, and just left mylot forever, which is better to be accepted.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
If you want to check if they are watching you can visit their profile and there almost at the end you will see their presence or otherwise here! May be myLot could send some promoting messages to those who have registered but are not participating.
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
9 Nov 11
Like in the real world...I am flying SOLO! No, I do NOT have any referrals...and I don't know if it speaks badly of me...not promoting this site! BUT, in my own defense, I feel that I also do NOT have the responsibility of their actions...or NON-actions, as the case may be! I have discussed with others the time that I spend here, but their intrigue seems to lie with FB, of which I hold NO interest..at ALL! Their choice...my choice, and never the 'tween shall combine, it seems! I don' t enjoy FB...find that I am almost fearful of the site and it's accompanying viruses...so love it here...SOLO!
• Canada
9 Nov 11
DANG...been up since 2 a.m., wandering the myLot world...and have now just found out...NONE of my ratings are sticking..how about you?
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
That is the case with everybody. "Water, water everywhere not a drop to drink" Despite having people around one is mostly lonely. I had no problem getting referrals - they all willingly signed up and that was all they did. myLot is in the process of upgrading and I suppose these glitches one finds here and there though not uniformly.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
10 Nov 11
Allknowing, i do have a referral who do visit here once in a while but seems never active posting in here. She seems only interested to come here for information not participating in here. I do feels sad seeing this type of referral. Although i ever explained to her the way of earning well through here, but seems she don't have the interest to actively participating in here. Seems like, we need to accept that, not every referral are active referral.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
11 Nov 11
I think this type of referrals are those who are looking for fast bucks. When they seems the earning is slow in here, they had lose their interest to get active in here. In fact not only here, even my referrals in other sites seems no interest to get actively involve in their daily activity in those sites.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
You have company of not just one but all who have responded here who have the same experience! Why do they sign up and lose interest is something I have not understood.As for me I will never ever canvass!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
9 Nov 11
I'm still getting use to the idea of having a referral, sweetie. I will watch and see what happens.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
You are getting used to the idea of having a referral? What exactly does that mean saphy?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
10 Nov 11
I never had a referral before sweetie.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 11
first time I joined Mylot, I was not interested at all in having referral. I was so sure that people around me didn't believe I could earn money from internet just by making status or giving comments. so I kept my participation on Mylot for about three years. Then I got my first time payment from Mylot in October. from this I start to be interested of having referral. people tend to believe to something we tell if we have evidence or proof. So I try to persuade some of my friends to join Mylot by sending them link. if they join Mylot via the link, they will be my referral automatically. and I got two referrals. for the first time, one of them was really interested in Mylot. she gave response to some discussion. her English is very good, much more better than me. but today she is not active anymore. she enjoys playing game more than participate on Mylot. if you ask me whether I have odd experience like yours, yes I do. so, start from today, I quit finding referrals..
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
All of us were beginners here once and we stayed on. These referrals somehow have no interest. They are my friends in the real world. I would not want to use any tactics or drag them by their collar to participate!
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
Good for you that you believe that your referrals are taking rest. But with others here their referrals never participated at all!
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 11
I know Mylot by myself and nobody told me so I don't have up line or something. I quit playing on Mylot for about two years and being active again three months ago. I hope my referrals are also like me. they need to take a rest for a moment then they will be active, more active than before, few months later. who knows? LOL..my referrals are also my friends in my real world..
@ceasar09 (442)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Maybe your referrals have their day jobs so they weren't find a time to be here at Mylot or because they are busy person and don't have a time to discuss things here at Mylot. Personally I don't have any referrals here I'm just working my best, enjoying my stay here and respond to others discussion and in that way I really earn some money here. But I am planning to try to have some referral and maybe they can help me earn a little bigger, and hope that I will get a referral that will be really active and also enjoy being here at Mylot.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
I too am not depending on my referrals but I would have been happy if they participated. Not for money but interacting with those who you already know is a different type of experience
@ceasar09 (442)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Yup It would be really nice if they participate here and truly find the essence of socializing and interacting with others with different things. =)
@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
10 Nov 11
Most of my referrals sign up, but never come back. My husband is a referral and he is here now and again. I had another friend who joined but I think some things in her life are getting in her way right now. I do not count on referral earnings here. I do enjoy visiting all my friends I make, though.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
All referrals seem to have a mental block when it comes to participating in myLot!. Did you see GG almost all who have responded here have said the same thing. Why should our referrals behave the way they do? Any answers? It is almost an exodus!!
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
10 Nov 11
I don't have any referral, for any site that am working on.Some times i wish i did have a few referral so that i could earn a bit more,so i just have to work hard on my own to achieve on my home. But if i get a referral who is active, i would be.And some people get referral but they are not active.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
Some users here do have active referrals but I think they are just a few. Interacting with those that you know in the real world is lot of fun but my referrals have vanished!
• United States
9 Nov 11
I don't really have many referralls maybe 2 in all the p.t.c. sites that I do. The problem is that when we get referrals they are not active enough and it really makes no sense to me. Like others have mentioned here I feel the same better off alone.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
It is baffling that most users who have responded have said the same thing. Referrals never come back. Why? is a million dollar question. If they thought they would get paid with big bucks then they are under the wrong impression. Whoever is here knows that myLot does not pay big money but money is not the only reason why all of us are here.
@sajeevking (5073)
• Mumbai, India
9 Nov 11
Hi allknowing i got my first active referral just 1 month ago he was taking part in discussion and even communicated with me few times but then because of all the up and down here in mylot i guess he has lost the trust (i don't blame him any one would have) other than him all other are in RIP may be your referral who logs in eventually is using mylot search engine or just trying to find out how mylot works it would be better if you pm them i guess
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
My referrals surely know what is good for them. If they are not happy here it is their choice. No one pushed me here and I do not want to push anyone either.
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
9 Nov 11
Hi , In the beggining when I registered at mylot , I did it by my own , and I stared sending the link to those who I though could be interested in practice their english , and only one joined , and only wrote 3 comments and never cameback. But , now I am not interesting in inviting any close friends in here , because this way I can express myself , with them around it wont be that easy , thinking that they are reading what I write , I am just happy in here without referrals.
@allknowing (137553)
• India
9 Nov 11
They do not know what they are missing and I am not going to woo them here. Earlier I was trying to send my link to others and that I have stopped. I am here mostly to exchange views and opinions and earning is secondary.
• United States
9 Nov 11
Yes all the time! I used to be motivated by the gain of two or three referrals but most of the time they'll join and won't be active at the thought of actually earning their money. Most people who sign up under me, whether here or on other sites, expect big money almost expediently. In reality, I'm sure the oppurtunity to gather such funds in a short period of time is inexistent but people still join under this assumption. Still every now and then, I receive an active referral, for which I am very grateful! If you are an active referral for someone, pat yourself on the back! :)
@allknowing (137553)
• India
10 Nov 11
I have never informed any of my referrals that they will earn lot of money here but I did it with a view to interacting here and having fun. Alluring referrals with the promise of big money I think is wrong and if any users have done that then one can expect referrals to stop being here.