perfect match
By baifernam
@baifernam (71)
Philippines
November 8, 2011 11:37pm CST
I probably looking for a perfect match for me. A guy who will seriously love me for the rest of his life. I've done mistakes before in my past relationship because I've chosen a wrong guy. We've quarrel because of misunderstanding and uncomfortable to each other. I want to meet someone who is really for me and can be my partner forever and possibly being my husband as well. How do i know that particular guy is in love with me? Is anyone there can share to me about it?
3 responses
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
9 Nov 11
I think it's always a risk, getting involved with somebody new, no matter how much we love them and they love us. We can work on the love though and hope it survives many years of being together. I'm sure you will eventually meet somebody who's right for you and that it will happen when you least expect it. As for knowing whether you are in love with someone, then when it happens, you will just know...as for knowing whether he's in love with you, I think you can probably tell by what he does rather than what he says, and how happy he seems to be with you when you are together.
@baifernam (71)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
Actually, two guys love me but I don't know who will be the one that I have to choose. The 1st one is my last x bf. I still love him till now and he does too. We keep on communicating and see each other always but there such a problem to both of us. We keep on arguing to each other almost everyday. But even though we have a misunderstanding we still love each other. The other one is my long time x bf. He is so kind and concern to me. He really told me that he's willing to wait when I will get ready to have a relationship but he don't know that I have a mutual understanding to my last x bf. We do communicate also but not always. I don't want to hurt him because still I have feelings for him too but not same to my last. I really don't know what to do. I don't expect that it will happen to me that I will have to choose between the two guys who are important to me. I don't know who among of them is the right man for me :(.
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
12 Nov 11
Must be very difficult and confusing for you. I really hope that in time, all the answers become clear. Good luck!
@baifernam (71)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
I do socialize to other people, hanging out with friends sometimes but if there's a guy who wants to talk to me and newly meet, I have to say sorry for him because I can't give much attention instead just only to my friends. I don't want to get involve to any other man because I'm still in complicated situation :(.
@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
9 Nov 11
From my experience you will know when you find the right one. You will not want to hide anything about you, you will be totally honest with him. You will be able to communicate with him about good things and bad things. You will look forward to seeing him even if it is during a hard time in your lives. Just be patient it will happen in its own time.
@baifernam (71)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Thank you for sharing me Lis. Actually, now I meet a guy who I think care for me so much but I have to make it sure if he really seriously love me. I do communicate him and tell him what things i like and don't like. You know what Lis, we do have a similarities in our attitude. Do you think we are compatible to each other?
