Your boyfriend /girlfriend left you..Life Goes on

that is normal, because the sufferer is under recovery, based on experiences, if you found another partner later (it always come and doesn't need to seek) the previous partner that left it doesn't matter, because the very important is the present partner at least, love is much better for the second time around

Yeah that's right... Life goes on even your ex boyfriend/girlfriend left you for someone else...

I know what you mean some people just lose hope and do not want to go on living....such is happening to my grandson right now he left his girl friend and still she keeps calling and say she is going to kill herself if he is not going back to her...is a very distressing situation really he was in tears the other day and said "nan what Am I suppose to do?"...you can't go back to some one and pretend to love them! I think this kind of people have a sick way of loving...I would not want some one that does not love me. Yes it hurts but like you say life goes on I my self had a few disappointments in my life and I always though I have a life to live and that is exactly what I'm doing.

Hi adhyz: I agree with you. Everyone is responsible of their own happiness. Even if breaking up with someone is always a terrible experience, life goes on and there are so many things to do. He/ she is just another human. Your happiness don't depend on the choice of someone else. ALVARO

Hi Ashyz.. as an ordinary person, sure I ever had a bitter experience like broken heart. but fortunately I could get through all the problem very well. I was so sad of course every time I got a broken heart but I could make myself calm down and go down to the earth again. I think I can forget my ex boy friend easily. I don't like to be in a sad situation too long. you know what is my principal due to this matter? I will forget the old by getting the new one1 LOL..and it always works on me. some of my friends said that I can't live without a boyfriend. it's not true I think. yeah it's right that I always have a boyfriend in my life. when I broke with a guy, I can find the other soon. so it doesn't mean that I can't live without a boyfriend but I only get the new one too soon..LOL..

Amen to that. That's a good advice. But, in reality, it is really hard to handle especially if that person gave 100%.

It can be very difficult when a relationship falls apart but as you say..life goes on. But sometimes it just takes longer to get over it and it seems that life goes on too long. I am not feeling that way right now but I do when I think too much about my life and what it was like 5 years ago compared to where I am now. It was much better 5 years ago but then my health was much better and I was living with my husband then and I thought things were good. But low and behold they weren't so good after all because today I am sitting here alone, in my livingroom, working in mylot, instead of being in my man's arms. I am kidding in some ways as I always try to make light of things but sometimes life can feel lonely or overwelming but things always get better sooner or later. So we have no choice but to keep going and living and hoping that...that one day will come soon. But once we loose that hope there is no chance so we need to keep that hope. And of course with hope comes faith because without faith we couldn't have hope. Too much for me right now, have to leave this discussion. Cheers and happy mylotting my friend Talk to you soon, Chris

Life definitely goes on after a break up. It will definitely be very hard specially if the break up is not really mutual. As they say, hearts don't break even. I am lucky that I have never really experienced a heartbreak. Maybe when I was like 10 and found out that my boyband crush has a girlfriend lol.

No need to lose hope or dishurtened,I've also lost someone.i feel the way.But everything is changing,mind is one of them.

Yes you are right bro. the worl is not end when we have lost our lost. the life still go on with all of thing in this world. an there are so many thing that you dont know around this world okay. i will not hurt myself just because i have just left by my girlfriend. i will not waste my time. if i have lost my love,i will try to find another love that will be my destiny. so i dont have to drop in a deep sorrow

Yes its true...may be at the moment that you end your relationship to you partner..Its hurt a lot but when the time past..I hurting feeling will be gone until you will find you new partner..

you're right,,because nothing is eternal in this world. because we must be prepared with everything that happened today and our future life to come :-)

i had similar experience before when my first girlfriend betrayed me despite a smooth, sweet and exciting relationship. It was too hard for me. I tried making up for myself by looking for a new one. The next girlfriend I had is nothing compared to the first one but she helped a lot. she filled any emptiness that the first one caused me.

still not i have

i think pepole who do such thing is stupid, there are so many friends around you, including your parents, nobody must be your moon or sun, and no one will be suffocated by leaving others, we should make happiness for ourselves

Don't lose your hope. life must goes on! Everything must goes on!

hi, of course if this will happen to me i surely forget that person because he left some pain to me,and also to move forward to find my happy future too.maybe i will only be sad in the first month but after that moving on and forget that guy.

I accept that I'm one of them. And you are right, life must go on. I've been neglected and got hurt. But i was able to survive because i have my God, my family and my friends who supported me all the way. I also realize that maybe we are not just meant for each other and that we'd better off this way. Also i believe it happens for a reason.

you are right, that is a good advice, and in addition, when you love someone, dont give your 100% to them, leave some for your self so that when something happens, you still have left for your self.

Agree with you, life should go on. The show must continue. We can not enforce our feeling to others. But, we can learn to love someone again and again.