Are you agree with me? No age limit for fall in love
By fantabulus
@fantabulus (4000)
India
November 9, 2011 2:08am CST
Yesterday my MIL's friend came in our house. She was telling about her married son he was 50 years old. He has three childs, 2 girl one boy and he is fall in love with 40 years women she is also married. She was crying and talking about her son in law she is good and worry about her life.
How danger after marriage also people fall in love with other women than their own wife not think about child also. Share your view he should punished or not. No age limit for fall in love. Married women also not think about her husband she also doing love with 3 childs father.
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20 responses
@xavier_sh (222)
• Nepal
10 Nov 11
Its true that there is no age limit to love but love after marriage is not pardonable. And even blunder mistake after having three children. After getting married one should not be so selfish and think about oneself but should be responsible to the family and the people around. Especially after having kids. I do not think they should be punished but they need proper guidance and help so as to control their emotions and make them more responsible towards the family.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
I agree, there is no age limit to falling in love. My step grandma is 20 years younger than my real grandpa. Both of them lived happily together until now.
I don't understand your other questions, I'm sorry.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
10 Nov 11
I don't think there is any age limit on being in love with someone, but I'm not sure I would act on it if there were a big age difference. I have dated men 10 years younger than me and I was okay with that.
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@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
Hello friend on my opinion its not a big deal with age differences
i thiink it depends to both persons feeling and how they inlove each other.
Let me say my situation, my fiancee is 49 and i am 31 so its not a big deal
the important things you both fall inlove to each other.
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@MRconrad01 (148)
• United States
10 Nov 11
Love knows no limit as long as both people are consensual adults. I do think that some people convince themselves they're in love sometimes because they think it'll make them happy though.
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@alyssum90 (46)
• United States
9 Nov 11
falling in love has little to do with age. I think it all depends on a person's maturity level.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Nov 11
Hi!
It really looks odd and beyond comprehension that a married man with three children could fall in love with a married woman. Sometimes humans do such things which can not be explained.
The answer to your question could only be given by the concerned person.
You would have heard - "Everything is possible in love and war"
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Nov 11
My dear fanta,
Love is beyond the age
It may happen dear but sad in case of married people, it hurts to the other partner and children. I heard so many stories of extra-marital affairs, but in many cases it is mere infatuation. If it is real love nobody can break it dear.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Nov 11
Yes dear sree this is not fair leave their own partner for others. Ohhhhh Love is beyond the age means man can fall in love in 100 years of age also life is very danger. Extra marital affairs is not good I hate it.
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Nov 11
Hi fanta...
Education and love dont require particular age. I have seen many instances where people fall in love and achieve degrees on their older ages.
Have a nice time.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Nov 11
Yes you are right shibhu education and love not need age. But at least they should care of emotions and their family members why they not think about it. One married man(3 children's father)fall in love with a married women. This is very danger and fanta not like this. One women and one man is sufficient for true love.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Nov 11
Dear funny fanta yes no age limit for love person can fall in love in any age but this is wrong love after marriage with other women or man. Why people need others than their own. Why man always find other women I think here some mistake of wife also she should try to stay according to their husband wish. So he cant go anywhere.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Well,once a person inlove with somone,you can't control it..They know what their doing,and if they have family,they should not love other ,not allow herself to love another person..I think this is kind of tempations or etc..
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Nov 11
Ohhhhhh means if a person fall in love lost his/her life not seeing anything means they are like blind person. Danger I think fanta is safe only love with his husband and all other man is like brothers ahah...
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
11 Nov 11
I am sure other man is your brother,and you only love your husband..
You are blind because you fal inlove with your husband.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
There is nothing wrong if a 50 year old man fall in love with a 40 year old woman. Both are old and in their right age, this is very different from 16 year old woman falling in love with a 26 year old guy where age will really be an issue.
What's wrong in this story was that, he is 50 years old guy with 3 children who I guess still needs parental support and guidance from him. Plus, the woman is also married and maybe has kids too. Both of them are not divorced right? So this is where their love story becomes wrong, illicit, immoral and whatever you can may call it.
How can his kids travel the right path when the father itself is taking the wrong path? He needs to be advised and waken up before it's too late.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Nov 11
Wooooo ene what a great response you are right this is not wrong both are fall in love but if they are not married then this is good thing. But both are married so this is not good. Yes if fathers are going in wrong way then how can child walk in right way. Nice view fanta like it.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
thank you fanta for liking my views on that issue I hope the father realizes soon that he might lead his children to a wrong path. If the kids were not guided properly and became confused especially seeing their dad engaging to illicit affair might become rebellious in the future.
@khare_1005 (1310)
• India
9 Nov 11
i don't think this could be considered as a true love.and such relationships are neither right in the eyes of society nor do our laws approve it.this come under the category of extra marital relationship and is a form of crime.
i too see many such cases in my place that most of the high class society people get engaged in these extra marital more often but i eel so bad about them.why don;t they give any consideration to their family before doing all these?would they gain any good out of it? they will neither have their family nor would they achieve their fantasy.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Nov 11
You are right sweet profile this is not right or good in the eyes of society members but I have seen not this extra merital affairs are increasing day by day. Why man or women not satisfied with their partner. Why not think about their children. You are right this is not true love but this is bad thing to leave the family for others.
@khare_1005 (1310)
• India
9 Nov 11
this is called lust.i can not suggest any better name for such behavior.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
9 Nov 11
I think that as long as both of the people are consenting adults, then there shouldn't be a problem with who they choose to fall in love with. Of course there are going to be stuggles about the fact that they're going to be at completely different stages of their lives and there may be a few issues because of this, but it is entirely up to them whether they think they can cope with it or not. We should never judge people based on who they fall in love with, as they are more than capable of being able to make that decision for themselves.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
10 Nov 11
Hi fantabulus, this is not a healthy relationship and we should not call it as a love, that is something like different which cause many problems physically and mentally to family members. I think you are watching crime reports, most of the crimes now a days is because of this extra marital relationships.
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
I definitely agree with you, there is no rule even in the law that falling in love in early age or age gap has some limitations. Sometimes, there are situations that it is too weird to fall in love not in an exact age expectations. However, nobody could question and dictate a person when should be the age that his or her heart starts to fall in love with someone else.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
There is no limit when it comes to love. Many find it hard to understand. We have just to accept the is giving us. Although there situations that are very complicated, that is now the challenge to the couple how they will be able to manage their relationship be strong. Let us also not be judgmental seeing lovers which we think not suitable for each other because just only of there age. Let us just be happy for them.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Nov 11
I agree. If there would be an age limit on falling in love this would mean that at a certain age you don't have feelings anymore.
People always have feelings no matter how young or old they are.
@Pushhyarag2000 (1416)
• India
10 Nov 11
Hello fanta. I find the connection between the question of this post & the content is a bit intriguing! By narrating a specific instance, you have prompted the question whether there is no age limit for love. Love being an emotion and empathy between man & woman, there is no second word that it can happen at any age in life. But if the question is posed in the context of two married persons with a long married life each, then it has to be considered in a social context and involves propriety issues. It is first of all extra marital attraction which may e some kind of physical lust. It is illicit and illegitimate. It is OK for two married persons [man & woman] regardless of their age to experience empathy due to some very close common interests but to pursue it as love is gross injustice to their present dependents.
It is not to say there arise some vibes but people must tied themselves down by socially acceptable conduct. Otherwise, on the pretext of love being blind or not limited by age, people tend to become highly permissive the sanctity of marriage will be lost.
My thoughts.