What will you do if your spouse starts to do something to lose weight?

lose weight - it is healthy to have a right weight
@youless (112481)
Guangzhou, China
November 9, 2011 2:54am CST
Will you encourage or discourage him/her if she wants to lose weight? Will you support him/her? Will you keep fit with him/her together? I am interested what you will do if you hear your spouse wants to lose weight.
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@Anne18 (11029)
9 Nov 11
If my spouse wanted to lose weight I would help my spouse all I could by not cooiing fatty foods, lots of salads etc. I would also support excerise and good diet and yes I would join in with them even if I didn't leave to loose any weight because the healthy diet would do me good and the keeping fit would be very good for my body overall as well. It would be something we could do together and both get lots out of.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
I think doing exercises to lose the weight is a good idea.
@Anne18 (11029)
13 Nov 11
Thank you so much, we walk a lot as a family as we all enjoy that and you can look around at the trees etc as you walk.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
My husband is also trying to loose weight, we both are actually and we have been supporting each other. We are becoming health conscious lately and we know this is for the best, we are also trying to stay fit so our kids can see its importance.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
That's a great news!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
of course i will and I will join him as well. But the problem is...I am too lazy to do exercises, diet is fine with me. I can lose weight for a week with diet alone.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
I hope you still pay attention to the balanced diet.
@yippih (101)
10 Nov 11
I will definitely support her, keep oneself fit equal to keep oneself healthy, overweight or obese is related with lot of diseases like stroke and heart disease which are preventable. But someone need to have a right way to do it, i mean by scientific methods, like knowing the food calories and daily body requirement, not by starving and refuse to eat, if in that way, i think i will not support, i rather to have a fat spouse rather than skinny sick partner!!!
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
You are a nice husband.
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@maz1207 (221)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 11
Hi, i would support my spouse if he wants to lose some weight. He'll be healthy and not at risk of dangerous sickness. :)
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
I think so.
@turbopt (74)
• Portugal
9 Nov 11
Offcourse i will support, i want a wife so healthy as I try to be I would go to a gym with her or walk to the beach or something to lose weight
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
It is very kind of you.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
13 Nov 11
Personally right now, I would Love for my husband to try and get Health conscious a little more, and try and tell me wants to find ways to loose some weight. That would mean changing his eating habits a little more which would actually benefit the two of us since I am Diabetic. But since a lot of the foods like Fruits and Vegetables cost so much, it could be a hard go for sure.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Nov 11
I hope you can control your blood sugar well and it is not a big problem to be a diabetic.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
i think i would just start asking why and for what reasons, but will definitely support my partner if he wants to be healthy, i would also want to go with him and be healthy like he is, i would say that it is a good way for us to also motivate each other.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Nov 11
You are very nice.
@chertsy (3798)
• United States
12 Nov 11
I wouldn't do anything if my husband wanted to loose weight. Just means he wants to be healthy. My husband wouldn't say anything to me, unless I started to loose to much. Now getting my husband to get and do it is a whole different story. His weight is fine, its his stomach that needs work.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Nov 11
It is a good news that your husband's weight is fine.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Nov 11
It is a good news that your husband's weight is fine.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 11
Hi youless, I will encourage and accompany my spouse to do physical exercise to help him to lose weight for sure if he really wishes to do so. It would be nice to have morning brisk walk or jogging in the nearby park where the air is cold and fresh. It's beneficial to our health to breath in fresh air while doing exercise. Moreover the scene in the morning is fascinating, and melodious birds chirping is available as well I enjoy the most is to have delicious breakfast after the walk or jog in a nearby food court where various yummy foods are served Happy posting
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
10 Nov 11
Seems that both of us are caring wife. Yeah with the support and encourage from his dear loved one it's sure that the husband will be full of confidence and will continue and persist the tough loosing weight until he reaches his goal Actually my husband is too skinny and he needs to put on weight. I often accompany him to have morning brisk walk and I hope doing so can stimulate and promote his appetite to take more food Take care and have a nice day
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
We all care about spouses' health. I will support if my husband loses the weight since he has become fatter since we are married
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Nov 11
If you read the Cosmo and afew of those magazine they would tell you this could be a sign him/her was having an affair. lol Why discourage this person? They want to do something good for themselves. There is no reason to discourage them at all. We should support our partner in all things that they set out to do.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Nov 11
I wonder whether this is a sign to have an affair, I don't really believe it
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Nov 11
I would hope that this person is just trying to better themselves. Encourage them.
• China
10 Nov 11
It has not happened to us, because we are not all that overweight.however providing that my better half would like to do something to lose weight,I am sure to support her.I well know that people who are overweight are apt to get diabetes,cardiovascular disease ,etc.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
In fact my husband is not very fat, perhaps just strong
• China
10 Nov 11
I have been to the South many times before.I seldom saw a fat person there.
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@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
11 Nov 11
i would support my partner definitely when it comes to getting fit. following the right way to lose weight of course if it's not like he has to skip meals or purge? that is a big no! i would stop him and not support what he is doing for his self.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Nov 11
Perhaps your husband just wants to do some exercise to lose weight.
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
probably too. uhm,., i do not have husband yet.
@Mashnn (4501)
9 Nov 11
This will depends on which means she or he uses to lose weight. If is is exercises, I will support, if it is skipping mean and fasting to be thin, No I won't support it.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Nov 11
You are a very good wife
@Mashnn (4501)
9 Nov 11
I hope so.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 Nov 11
I will be worried if it is some drastic measure taken. THis may have health hazards. On the other hand, if it is a case of foregoing some kinds of food items, extra exercise or so , I will just keep quiet; however, if I feel it is worrying, I will try to add some nutrition in cooking what he himself prefers to eat.They are all adults and may not listen to what I say if I say something. It may even lead to ill temper.I will do something that cannot hurt him and just pray to GOd that the regimen should suit him.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
Sometimes the men are stubborn.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
9 Nov 11
youless, I would not just jump in and say that I would fully support it especially not without her knowing if she should do it or not. Of late, I have seen people hopping on this bandwagon because their peers or colleagues are doing it without considering if they should or should not. So unless she knows what she's doing and necessary, I would not. The other area I am concern about is the diet, which I believe will involve the whole family when the food could not be prepared separately. I have to go on a case to case basis for this one, if you don't mind.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
You are very logical I can understand that you will be worried about the meal.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 11
If my partner going to lose weight, I will definitely do it with her, you need partner to do together so that you can be consistent and continue to do it everyday. So, at least that will give her some support and at the same time, I can also have some exercise together.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Nov 11
How nice you are
• China
9 Nov 11
Well, to my mind, i will respect my wife's choice as long as it is not harmful to her. Moreover, as a man, who doesn't want his wife or girlfriend to be slim and hot? Although i am not a superficial guy, you know, only focus on female's appearance, i definitely have no problem with their change toward beauty.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
It is true
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
hello, If it is for him well I will support him because it is for his health and I dont like him to be super fat. I know in some basic ways they can lose weight like exercising. right?
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Nov 11
You are right.
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
10 Nov 11
Hello Youless, I will support her in it if she does it by exercising and diet control.I would not allow her to skip meals to loose weight.Of course loosing extra weight is good for health and one should shed away that extra fats.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
10 Nov 11
This is a nice way to lose weight by doing exercises.