My birthday is coming soon...

Well, Happy Birthday! My 60th was on November 6th. Alone on your birthday is a bummer. Can you wait and celebrate it later? That is what I would do. Why are you living in the city and away from everyone? I live in the same city as my kids. All my other family is gone now.

Don't think your birthday will be a sad one dear. Even though you are alone, you can make it more fruitful. We are here for you. Since you are away from your loved ones, just contact them and through calling them I believe that is already a big gift in your birthday. Anyway, there are more birthdays to come. You can also go strolling to the malls since you are in the city. I am sure there are a lot of things you can do. Don't be sad, okay?

happy hope you have fun.

I am sorry for the absence of the people that gave you the reason to be happy but instead of hiding in your room, you must find ways how to be happy on once in a year self celebration. It will only make you more depress and being sorry for yourself if you hide and embrace such lonely moment..opssss no no no..get up..you also have friends and things you want to do I know..go and celebrate.. cheer up ^_^ advance happy birthday to you...^_^

Birthdays come one in a year my dear so you should enjoy it no matter what. I am pretty you have other friends other than your best friend. Enjoy yourself with them, treat them. You'll never know your best friend is just playing tricks on you, that she will surprise you, right? Happy birthday my dear and please post what will happen on November 12.

Look on the brighter side of things instead of dwelling into the sad ones :) For a starter, you'll be experiencing another birthday. Secondly, how sure are you that they will not come? May be they are cooking up some surprise for you! If ever they don't make it, surely there will be another time for your celebration. Cheer up :)

hi bessyjanmayi happy birthday early. mine is the fifteenth of November so we are both Scorpios. we are mysterious, often sad, well I never have anyone celebrate my birthday any more either but I will be damned if I am going to be sad, I am going out and buy myself just what i want for my birthday and phooey to those who forgot my birthday, I did not and will stand up for me that d ay. I will be happy and thats that.so know I care its your birthday and send many good wishes for lots of happiness to come your way do not be sad, you are somebody be proud of you as you are unique. from hatley.

Don't be sad celebrate the life! A lot of people didn't have the opportunity to see even this day so be thankful to see your birhtday, a lot of people love you, are lucky, you have family,you have friends,you are the treasure most loved of allof them. Sometimes the things don't happen in the way we would like but thanks there is always another day. Please enjoy your day think about all the specials times that your friends and family have give you and will continue giving,you are no alone. Happy birthday in advance.

Dont be sad, just remember that those people are precious to you atleast remembers your special day, no reason to be sad actually. You still have many birthdays to come and events, you still have the time to be with them. As some people say, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder", i actually do believe in it. There are also times that i feel so alone, but just think of the people around you and supporting you.

Advanced happy birthday.You should try to be happy on that day,we should count our blessings and don't give much attention on things that can stress us.Always be happy and love love love.

HI bessy,first let me be one of the first to wish you a very very HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY...secondly I feel that you should not be sad on our birthday...you have to keep the operative word in mind..YOUR birthday..you were born alone and you will most likely die alone.. you should not depend on others to make you happy or make your day. I am sure you would like it much more if you were with your family and friends...but if you are not you should take the next best step.. satisify yourself..life still goes on and you still should be happy ...just give some thought about doing something with others around you. you are living in another place other than with you family so you should have some friends/associates that you can do something with ita been stated IF YOU CAN'T BE WITH THE ONE YOU WANT..LOVE THE ONE U WITH" happy happy "B" day...