I am happy, i am worry!
By tao_love2009
@tao_love2009 (68)
China
November 9, 2011 9:09pm CST
Hello! everyone! long time no come! i hope everything is ok!
I am both happy and unhappy recently. happy,because my girlfriend hunt a good job,she will have a good income,but i am worried now, if she go to work , we won't live in the same city, i love her so much,i don't know how to do without she. if you are me, how would you do?
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@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
It's nice to hear that your girlfriend will have a good job, kudos to her and to your supporting her. I don't think you can be that far with each other with the new technology, you can be as close as before or even more. How about a call every night before bedtime would keep the flame burning for you and make you miss each other and love more.
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@tao_love2009 (68)
• China
12 Nov 11
thanks EdnaReyes, good luck for you. i support her.we will be together.
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@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
why worry dear??
let her be, let her experience how to be away from you sometimes.Dont you know that being away with your partner sometimes makes you miss each other.?Let her explore and grow.And while she is working away from you, you need to keep yourself busy too by working.so as not to think of her all the time..
If in time you see that you both cant live a life away from each other,maybe you can look for a job near her place so you'll get to be near her. :-D
Congratulations to your girlfriend.. and good luck to you.
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@tao_love2009 (68)
• China
12 Nov 11
thanks tamirs, I just hope that my girlfriend and i can stay in same city,then i can see her everyday, At the same times, i can take care of her.if she go to work in that city, there is no parents ,no friend,just work,she will be tired.
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@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
I understand why you are feeling this way. For sure you both going to miss each other but for sure you will find time to see each other still though not as often as before. This is a good opportunity for her, this will help her to grow intellectualy. Just keep in touch with her and everything will be okay.
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@tao_love2009 (68)
• China
10 Nov 11
thanks indahfth! I am happy for she can find a good job. but if she go to work , i can't see her every day!
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@Vidianto (36)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
waw..so sweet you don't know how to do without her.... i guess i have the same issue with you where is my GF also have a good job but i can't live in the same city, I got a job too. Fortunatelly, when she got day off she always give her time for me;)
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
It's really great that your girlfriend got a job that pays good. You should really be happy about that and don't worry yourself too much from being so far from her. Try to get a good job too and if possible in the same city too. However, if you were not able to find one that is near her, it's okay... both of you should think about your career now and earn for both of your future. Sometimes it is better to be separated at least you both will miss each other. Just try to communicate everyday or every other day at least and see each other once in a while or on important occasions.
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@telmesh (1793)
•
12 Nov 11
True love will always find a way. Not being together for long periods of time does test trust and will also help you in working together to make a future for yourselves. Unfortunately good jobs are hard to find and living away from each other is a price you possibly have to pay for a bright future. When you've finished your course and achieved a good qualification you may be able to get a good job and consider working in the same area together.
@baanadetto_yuki01 (71)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
Wew! Congratulations to your girlfriend!
If I am a guy and I am in your situation, what I would rather do is to support her well and find a job on the same city so we can still be together..that's my idea especially if you really don't want her to be away..plus you can both be productive....^_^..
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@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
If you think you really can't handle being away from her then I suggest you look for a job in the same city. I think that's the only way unless you will convince your girl to turn down a good job which I think is not good if you do because you are supposed to support her and be happy for her that she were able to land a good job.
@tao_love2009 (68)
• China
10 Nov 11
thanks phillyguy! but I am a student now , I can't give up my study now. i support her, believe her, if we really love each other, i believe we will be together.
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@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
Oh I see. Then you can't do anything about it and you are right just support her and if you really love each other there will be no problem even if you are far.
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