Who is a real friend and who is the coward
By johnscurious
@johnscurious (164)
India
5 responses
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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20 Sep 06
A friend will always be there for you. A coward will find excues, reasons to not be there.
@geaniel (13)
• South Africa
4 Sep 06
I believe that true friends are very hard to come by. I had a friend for 12 years and realised that she was there to weaken me. Enticed me into her world which set me back a bit. My granny always used to say 'show me who your friends are, and I will show you your character'. It is very true because we send an energy that attracts negatives.
Friends can either pull you down or help you grow. Its the one that wants only the best for you.Pleasse read the following:
It Is Better To Be Alone, Than In The Wrong Company Tell me who your
best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with
wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles,
you will learn how to soar to great heights. "A mirror reflects a man's
face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he
chooses." The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those
with whom you closely associate - for the good and the bad.
The less you associate with some people, the more your life will
improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your
mediocrity. An important attribute in successful people is their
impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people. As you
grow, your associates will change. Some of your friends will not want
you to go on. They will want you to stay where they are. Friends that
don't help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch
your vision or choke your dream. Those that don't increase you will
eventually decrease you. Consider this: Never receive counsel from
unproductive people. Never discuss your problems with someone incapable
of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed
themselves are always first to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to
speak into your life.
You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange
ideas with the wrong person. Don't follow anyone who's not going
anywhere. With some people you spend an evening: with others you invest
it. Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road
of life. Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right
friendships.
Happy moments? Praise God
Difficult moments? Seek God
Quiet moments? Worship God
Painful moments? Trust God
Every moment? Thank God
If you see people without a smile today ... Give them one of yours. "A
man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend
that sticketh closer than a brother." - Proverbs 18:24
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
20 Sep 06
A real friend is someone who will be there for you no matter what, someone who will tell you look beautiful, even when you are sick , someone who makes you feel better even in the worst situations. I don't think it is difficult to tell the difference.