To the Singles Aged 35 & Up
By Graceekwenx
@Graceekwenx (3160)
Philippines
November 11, 2011 6:56am CST
To the singles out here aged 35 and up... Are you still confident that you would meet someone in the near future and be with them till the rest of your life?
6 responses
@IrishGal77 (260)
• Ireland
8 Jan 12
Hi Graceekwenx,
I'm going to be 35 next month (so I almost qualify to take part in your discussion tee hee hee!) and have been separated 18 months now. I don't know what's in store for me, if I'm meant to meet that someone special who I will spend the rest of my days with or not, I really don't know. I'd like to meet a truly wonderful guy so that that would happen but only if it's meant to be that way. Would much rather be single than be in a relationship with someone who does not treat me right. Am I confident I'll meet someone in the near future and be with them the rest of my life? That's a tough one. I honestly don't know the answer to that question. I am hopeful though. I do think that what's for you won't pass you by. Fate and all that :)
IrishGal77 :)
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
14 Nov 11
I am 49 and I amnot confident I will meet someone to spend my life with! I know if there is someone out there for me I would of found him by now! So I am content to be single for the rest of my life! Being single is so much easier then being with someone!
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
That`s so me!I will be 35 tomorrow and I sometimes feel sad that i am still single:(. Sometimes i am confident that i will find the right man who is caring,who loves me and i love him too, but when?I have BF however because of some misunderstanding, we lost contact, and last month it seemed that everything was clear as we talked a lot what became the problem,my misunderstanding,his misunderstanding,his endless activities running his own business etc..however...he didn't contact me again and I still feel guilty about it...it is because i failed to make him comfortable,actually what I asked was only communication..i don`t want him to call me everyday, however, why didn`t he send me sms at least once a week?.I know he is focusing on some projects, I asked him to talk,I apologized but he is still quiet..I don`t know whether I can find someone again as now I have to have relationship with the man I don`t really like and my family doesn`t really like him too as he is kind of pretentious..
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
11 Nov 11
A pleasant day Graceekwenx,
I am proud to say that I am still single having an age above 35. Being at this age, I am not worried that I am still single. As I lift everything to God with regards to my lovelife. Hence, there are what you called a single blessed people. And who knows, I am part of that. But, I dont care being a part of that group. Perhaps my counterpart guy is also a part of the single blessed people and we are destined to meet there.
Life is full of wonders and we cannot really say what will happen at the end. You are single today, who can really say, maybe you will be getting married on your next birthday.
Just enjoy life to its fullest.
@Woody7189 (247)
• United States
12 Nov 11
Well, I am over 35 and single and I remain hopeful that I will one day meet that special someone. If you are confident in yourself and try to be a good person, somebody will surely notice. It just seems to me that it is easier to find when you are not looking for it. Either way, confidence and a positive attitude can do wonders in my opinion.
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