when your student blame and insult you??

Instead, you invite your students to speak. And ask, why your student, did just that. And you have to listen to, what was said by your students. What is said by your students, will be the key, to improve the situation.

you must have a tactics every lie have a weakness find the weakness and confront back to her her words is your weapon to reveal her lie

When an angry student confront me (if they have the nerve,huh) about their failing grade and blame me, I tell her or him to shut up and see my records. I don't put grudge on students misbehavior and still give them the grades they deserve but I have other ways to make them pay. I don't give them nor sign their clearance for the next semester or year.

I think i will call the parents and also teach them right.And go to disciplinarian and talk to the studnet. Promise to respect as teacher..

I am not teacher, but being a student for long-long time :D. No need to worry, from my point of view, when you angry with your student. But there are some rules applied: 1. Never touch them physically. 2. Never talk "bad" words to them. 3. Angry only to the point that it needed, like if they late, just that point. 4. Never mix the grade of the subject with emotional feel. In my student days, there are points for behavior and discipline. 5. Do not angry for long time, but you can put some black list, either make her always answer all the question, or giving her more difficult task. But please, do not alter the grade. You know, when the teacher never shows some angry face or disagreement, they will get no respect feeling to you. I said this as a former student. No student respect teacher that always says "yes" and "okay". But, also no student that respect teacher that always angry every time. If she lie, just prove it that it is untruth. And if it is too far, just challenge her with an event to open all the proof, in front of every one (or just go to the Head with all the proof).

Staying patient and calm is very important, i know how hard it is. Otherwise they might lose from the respect they have towards you. Try to explain calmly that it's not true. Putting her in shame would be the same what she did and it doesn't really lead anywhere. I don't know the situation, I guess if it's serious then you can punish her, but do not take revenge.

I don't know how patient I could be under that situation. I am not sure what the accusations are but I can tell whatever it is, it must be bad. People often times take anger as being guilty too. I don't agree with that though because no one wants to be accused of something that isn't true. My personal ethic to handling something like that would be to prove the accusations false and treat them just the same as I did before. I think that the embarrassment and the fact that they were proved a liar PLUS having to see me all the time with a smile on my face is more effective than getting angry and holding a grudge. That's just the way I would handle it though.

It takes patience, to deal with such students. You do not need to do anything to the student. You only need to prove, that the words of your students, are lies, and untrue.

Hi adhyz: This situation must be the worst but I think I would front him and I would ask him what is his problem. I would be polite but I will always remember that I'm the authority in my class and if this person is just insulting me, he deserves a punishment. ALVARO

Being a teacher, u have to be patient at all times. No matter how the student insult u, humiliate u, u have to take it all in your stride. It's either u tell it to the principal or u call their parents for a good talk. IF u try to reason out with students on your own, teachers are often on the losing end because students can easily cry foul. When that happens, with school not supporting u, u will lose all morale and things start going downhill.

hi, of course as a teacher you should extend to your patient because one of good teacher's attitude having a long patient,if that will happen to me i will talk to the student and ask him/her why she/he do that then resolve it in good way too.

One of you need to be calm first. Well ..... since your student already pissed off for something, then you the one who should calm. After you clear your mind, call and speak with her but make sure you have a lot of witness (if not, she will lie again behind you). Ask her nicely why she doing it (she must some reason isn't ...??)

As an educator we encounter a lot of problems and issues regarding our profession. One of these is the student attacking a negative thoughts about us as teacher. We cannot deny the fact that we cannot please everybody. All we have to do as teacher is to stand what we think we are right. Let us not get affected on the issue as long as we know what we are doing what is right.

i am a teacher, form teacher position for grade two/ we must be responsible. if studnets do bad, the teacher must be responsible, to teache well, give they know about bad and good things. what they may do and what they may not do

Doing same thing won't help or resolve the issue. Being a teacher,I will never go down to my students level. I will talk with the student when she calms down. It's not good to add fuel when the fire is burning.

For me you act like you are her mother and you schooled them by respecting there pride and try to understand that there way of talked is good but they need to humbled because they are student only not just like you as a teacher.

Well it's not quite easy to deal with such kind of student but I chose to be patient even if she insulted me I still have to treat her nicely and talk to her in a nice way probably she is having difficulties in her life I mean maybe there are a lot of reasons why she have done that.I don't think that confronting her in a disrespect manner will only make the situation worst.One of teachers responsibility is to understand your student and guide them.

even though no matter how good the teacher is, there is still some students who disagree with it we as a teacher, can't please all of our students the teacher much show to their student some patience to ignore what bad words heard from students, but in the final round, if the student is a candidate for a failing grade with a solid reason and not for personal reasons, then give him a failing grade... a student must show some respect to their teacher but if the blame and insulting keeps on repeating then give the student a failing grade to his character performance in school subject, in the long run, the teacher will always win.

As a teacher, you should not respond rudely to your student even if she is putting you in shame. Understand why is she doing that? Could it be that she is experiencing something provoke her from doing that. As a teacher, you serve as the second parent to you student. Though , it might be insulting not to defend yourself, it is also rewarding to help that student overcome her situation. Once everything is okay, then that;s the time you give her a due punishment to set example and make her learn her lesson.