Swapping our partners
By naseemkum
@naseemkum (1803)
India
November 12, 2011 8:50am CST
Now its like fashion about swapping our own wife to our friends or somebody we meet in net. Today i saw one ad in which one men advertise that his wife would be free tonight for swapping as he is asking who is interested in swapping wife together. What u think about swapping partners now a days. Is it wrong or right?
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12 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
What?!? 
Is this for real? I don't think so! I've never heard of such thing in the net. Maybe these guys are just kidding with their friends...?
Is this for real? I don't think so! I've never heard of such thing in the net. Maybe these guys are just kidding with their friends...?@naseemkum (1803)
• India
13 Nov 11
Its not just kidding because they are giving open invite in some sites for cam show and also for private meeting. As they claim they are bored with each other so they are ready to try with new ones
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
13 Nov 11
That's too bad, they shouldn't have married their wife or husband if they're getting bored with it.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
13 Nov 11
Yes first they getting married then because of getting bored they are ready to try new ones but they are couples in real life but they had new partner for that particular day
@jennastewart2482 (357)
• United States
12 Nov 11
People have been swapping partners for a while now. I'm sure you have neighbors that do it. However, they probably do it very discretely. There are many swingers out there now days. They seem to enjoy the thrill out of having multiple partners and having their spouse know and agree that it's okay.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
23 Nov 11
When two people marry, they make sacred vows to one another. They make promises to keep themselves wholly for the other.
I'm sure it's the same no matter what the culture.
For some, it's obvious the breaking those vows, the marriage, the love once shared is all meaningless...the fact remains...being unfaithful to one's spouse is wrong.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
23 Nov 11
Regarding faithful is important between couples. Even they are mutualy decided to swap each other they thinks its not fault to swap our partners with our partner's permission. Its a one day night game so so many peoples wont take it as serious issues.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
13 Nov 11
Swapping has been going on since the 60's ...maybe longer. I think it's more a matter of personal morals than right or wrong. It would NOT be right for me at all. Still they are all consenting adults so I really don't care what they do. It's none of my business. I have enough to do just to keep myself on a path that I feel is right and really can't be worrying about someone else's moral code that isn't going to hurt anyone other than possibly themselves and who knows...maybe not even that.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
15 Nov 11
Its about in ur personal opinion u wont interfere in others business and wont follow others. But when couples swapping they are following other experienced swapping peoples. Its should be good if we protects as good our life may be good enough.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
Well, I don't agree with such kind of fun as far as my opinion is concern. Because those acts is a kind of unchristian values...
Just accept the arguments: How if one couples have HIV then all the couples will infected with the disease?
Still don't want to swap my partner. Because we are not animals that have no feelings and love didn't allow such things I think...I believed man's is not animal to be swap or anything...
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
17 Nov 11
I had seen such possessive ness among animals i believe really more animals wont allow to swap their partners. But in humans now a days lack of possessiveness so they are ready in exchanging their partners.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
16 Nov 11
The meaning of disrespectful is meaningless. Because in some couples womens also enjoying more than a men to enjoy trying with different partner. Its like a hobby as every new couple married had the interest of doing this.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
13 Nov 11
to me and my husband is no such thing.
we have not exchanged partners.
I think it depends on both.
and sometimes even a claim if the other wants does not solve the problem.
Tove is a fashion, I personally do not practice it.
Yet if there is mutual agreement will be a nice little diversity.
But I can say that my husband so far as I know it will not say.
good discussion.
nice day!
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
15 Nov 11
Yes if its done mutually i think there is no fault in swinging. Swinging cant be done by compulsion upon the couples. Its not diversity since some couples claiming that it wil increase love between both couples.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
14 Nov 11
I think these people are mad. It is absolutely not fashion but pranks or they are not human beings.
@sona22 (1430)
• India
12 Nov 11
Wife swapping has a very old history. It was common in Rome and to some extent in India also. In Upanishads we read it. To swapping wife to entertain the guests were common. During 2nd world war and korean war it was very common. Today the system is going on with a new look and idea. I think this link will give us information.
http://homerf.org.
It is
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
14 Nov 11
Thanx its very informative but now its only for pleasure to satisfying both couples for some extent. They need immediate swapping and after finishing with one couples they are eager and ready to try with new ones.
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
I think it is called "swinging". No, I don't like it at all.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
15 Nov 11
Yes swinging is done with the permission of both a partners so i think its nothing wrong if it done privately but im not agree with swinging always. Its some what such relaxment when a husband cant satisfy his wife and ready to try with different women for one night so better swinging would be done by compulsion its my point.
@geekemgirl (270)
• United States
13 Nov 11
I've known people who have swapped and/or been in open relationships, whatever they want to call it. If one person feels pressured or coerced then that would be a problem but if both parties agree to it and are ok with it then I dont have an issue with it. Besides I could care less what a couple decides to do within their relationship and especially in their bedroom. I dont feel it is my place to determine what is right or wrong in another person's relationship. If it works for them then more power to them. However, it wouldnt work for me in my relationship. In my relationship, it'd definitely be wrong. I'd view it as cheating. If I want to be with more than one person then I'd choose not to be in a committed relationship especially a marriage. I dont like to share when it comes to my food and my man so I couldnt agree to swapping.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
15 Nov 11
All peoples here claiming about they dont agree the habit of swapping but really now world becomes swapping more. If the husband likes swapping their wives also mutualy interested in that and go for a try now there are more offers in swinging i think husband gets something when he ready for swinging between partners.
@seemared (771)
•
11 Dec 11
As per my culture..I was to say wrong but it doesnt say anything about swapping so..I guess it depends upon the situation..if a couple is interested then let them..y should I bother.
it's their personal interest and thought so.I think its better for me to not poke into their business..
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