Kiss on the lips?

Philippines
November 12, 2011 12:02pm CST
hi there people, my friend who is a father ask me that if its ok if his teenage daughter who's 13 years old kiss him on the lips? What will be your reaction if you saw a father and daughter kissed in the lips? although it is just a smack for others it will be strange. What is your opinion about this?
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@JL_Beldua (102)
19 Nov 11
i think they both have a relationship, because ha kiss his daughter that teenage girls are not correct or maybe your normal such a thing, unless a child 1 to 3 years old ok only that, but that girls that is teenage already, if i am seeing such things are left me angry maybe i just crib them both, and those also father of the maiden he would stop the kiss, because they who gives the people who are able to think of sorts.
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• Philippines
19 Nov 11
the relationship is just father and daughter, my friend ask me that question because he is also worried what other people might say specially people here in Philippines where his daughter lives because most people here are conservatives.
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
12 Nov 11
Is that part of the custom in your country, or it is out of the track and consider incest to other people? I don't know if that is a okay according to your custom. In my custom, I don't see anyone would do that, except boyfriend or girlfriend relationship though. You can ask someone else opinion about it. But why would they want to do that though?
• Philippines
13 Nov 11
In Asian Customs of course it is find strange but in my friends place which is in US it is not a big deal. But he is worried because her daughter lives here in Philippines, and most people here in Philippines is a very conservative.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Nov 11
hi angelgie05 I am in the US and it so unds sickening to me as I wo uld never have kissed my father that way,in fact In ever cared that much for him I wou ld never have kissed him,He was mean and a grouch and other things I do not want to get into. that type of thing is really incestous.she is on verge of becoming a young woman and he should know better tha n that. my gosh.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Nov 11
hi angie I really do think its going beyond bounds of father and daughter.
• Philippines
20 Nov 11
well, that's what I said to my friend to tell his daughter stop doing that because it is not nice to see for most of the people.
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• Philippines
23 Nov 11
There is a boundary in age when a father should stop kissing his daughter in a the lips. in your friends situation, his daughter is already in her teenage years and it is a bit strange for them to kiss (even if it is just a smack) to the lips. Other people that would see it might put some malice on it. Also her daughter is physically developed that they now have a body of a woman (although it not fully developed)
@mariahhh (1328)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Nov 11
I think it depends on the person. If they are used on doing this, then I guess it's okay and for sure their friends and family will understand. Me and my father are not like that. But I guess if the daughter is that old then I think it;s better for the father to stop. Some people think differently and might give them some issue.
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• Philippines
12 Nov 11
I don't find it strange as I can see my classmate do that to their father too. Although there's a big difference between KISS and KISSING! Haha.. Kiss is an abrupt kiss, but kissing..whoa!?!? That's is a totally different story now! Get my point dear?
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
I think if she is already 13 years old, i think it is about time the father stopped doing this. it does not look very good already, at least from my point of view.
• Philippines
21 Nov 11
For me, it's sweet to see a father and daughter kissed in the lips. It only means that they are very close to each other which is very rarely to a father-daughter relationship. But, for a 13yr old teenage girl its quite awkward. Unless that 13yr old girl was the one who smack on her dad, then it would be just fine.
• Romania
20 Nov 11
I see that in some families and I find it kinda odd. I see parents who teach their kids to kiss them like that ever since they are babies and i guess as they grow older is just a habit they're doing, just something they were used to do ever since they were babies and then kids and perhaps they don't regard it as something strange. Not even the parents, to some it seems natural and normal to act like that even if their kid is on its way to turning into a teenager. For me it's plain odd and i would not teach my kid to do this!